what's up with all the fat women

[vinkoch]

I spent years in a marriage that I believe crumbled slowly because my wife got fatter and fatter and I looked better and better. We both cheated because I loathed sex with her. I got the thin women and she got the married coworker who porked fat women at work who were sex starved even tho his wife was hot (still don't understand that one). I could never get myself to leave her because I loved her. I just wanted her to lose weight. Since our divorce last year she has gained 20 lbs I'm guessing. And now she wants to remarry with me and have two children (another reason I wasn't happy, she refused to have children).

And since our divorce, I've noticed that the US is replete with fat women who make excuses for being fat. "it's just my body type. I had a baby. I've tried everything and nothing works. I don't want my boobs to shrink."

All bullsheeet!!! I was married to someone who let herself go. I watched her eating habits destroy her body. She knew this and chose fatness over discipline and being thinner. But she still spit out the excuses when she had to rationalize why she gained another 5lbs.

And these women are constantly hitting on me. I just started match.com last month. Everyday I get an email from the latest ms piggy asking me how my day was and wants to know what I do for a living. My profile specifically states that I prefer slender or athletic and toned, that she wants a child, and she lives a healthy lifestyle and works out or at least hikes or something active.

And it's not just online. Just yesterday this girl had to be about 23 and she just asked me out in front of her coworkers while I was ordering a gyro at the mall. She must have been 5'5 180.

Not trying to sound conceited but I'm a really handsome guy with good hair. I'm 6 ft 1 in. I weigh 215 lbs and have a 32 inch waist. It's not just my body type. I work my ass off in the gym three times per week and swim for an hour twice per week. I park my car as far from building as possible and walk and run my dog daily. If I didn't do this then I'd weigh about 180 lbs and have a 38 inch waist. Got there one time and refuse to let it happen again.

What is it with these fat women? They're everywhere. I'm drowning in a sea of fatties. It's disgusting. Put down the phukking fork and get some exercise.
And if they don't. Then fine. But why why why why why why why do they keep hitting on me? Why do I have to work to look good and have women expect me to settle for fat women?

I know some fatties I consider friends. They all seem to think they can cover it up with good hair and make up and nails and that their big tits are all that matters.

I just want a thin women. Is that too much to ask? I don't care about your huge tits. Hell I don't even care if your face is a little ugly. Just don't be fat!!! Women have become so fat that beauty means thin.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's people, not just women. Everyone is getting fat. I had my 20-year high school reunion not long ago. 90% of the people there were whales. The other 10% were fitness nuts. Once you hit 40, it's one extreme or the other.

I see it in my lawyer friends, too, especially, since all they do is sit at a desk. One guy I know from school was Mr Dreamy that all the girls wanted. He got hired with the Miller Lite Girls to be a Miller Lite Guy, which I didn't know existed. They paid him to stand around with hot chicks and drink, because he looked good doing it. I just saw a pic of him on facebook this week. He's lost most of his hair and gained about 100 pounds.

 

[ubercat]

Try going to dance classes I've seen a ugly girls at dance class but never any whales.

 

[Young OG]

The problem is, fat chicks don't have to lose weight to get laid. Plenty of guys will bang them. If guys would stop banging fat chicks, then they would have to lose weight or they would never get a man.

 

[Tictac]

It's people, not just women. Everyone is getting fat. I had my 20-year high school reunion not long ago. 90% of the people there were whales. The other 10% were fitness nuts. Once you hit 40, it's one extreme or the other.

__________

This ^^^^

Most people (men and women) are too lazy to either lift a finger or control what they eat. So the result is inevitable.

But this didn't happen yesterday or even last week. OP - why get torqued about it now? Howling about it isn't going to find you fit women. Keep fishing. And if a tubby tries to get on your line, throw her back.

Stay out of places that look like they got casted at peopleofwalmart.com. Not that many of us here check out guys, but it's not like men look like Greek gods these days either. I'll bet that there as as many 'big' men as there are 'big' women. So don't look like that yourself. You'll more likely find decent non-porkers if you're not one yourself.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

What you're experiencing happens to all guys in the self improvement movement. As you ascend to higher leagues women below your league will come onto you in an a blatant and sometimes aggressive manner. This is the proverbial WTF moment experienced by up and comers when they start getting hit on by fatties.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I've been in Japan for nearly 9 years, and I'm itching to leave. There's plenty of things I don't like about this place but ONE THING that I will miss are the women. Thin, dress nice in public, heels, makeup, very feminine (loud obnoxious women are rare and usually HS dropout age). Fat women are very rare.

What I fear most is this:

http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/page/6/

 

[exhausted]

I spent years in a marriage that I believe crumbled slowly because my wife got fatter and fatter and I looked better and better. We both cheated because I loathed sex with her. I got the thin women and she got the married coworker who porked fat women at work who were sex starved even tho his wife was hot (still don't understand that one). I could never get myself to leave her because I loved her. I just wanted her to lose weight. Since our divorce last year she has gained 20 lbs I'm guessing. And now she wants to remarry with me and have two children (another reason I wasn't happy, she refused to have children).

And since our divorce, I've noticed that the US is replete with fat women who make excuses for being fat. "it's just my body type. I had a baby. I've tried everything and nothing works. I don't want my boobs to shrink."

All bullsheeet!!! I was married to someone who let herself go. I watched her eating habits destroy her body. She knew this and chose fatness over discipline and being thinner. But she still spit out the excuses when she had to rationalize why she gained another 5lbs.

And these women are constantly hitting on me. I just started match.com last month. Everyday I get an email from the latest ms piggy asking me how my day was and wants to know what I do for a living. My profile specifically states that I prefer slender or athletic and toned, that she wants a child, and she lives a healthy lifestyle and works out or at least hikes or something active.

And it's not just online. Just yesterday this girl had to be about 23 and she just asked me out in front of her coworkers while I was ordering a gyro at the mall. She must have been 5'5 180.

Not trying to sound conceited but I'm a really handsome guy with good hair. I'm 6 ft 1 in. I weigh 215 lbs and have a 32 inch waist. It's not just my body type. I work my ass off in the gym three times per week and swim for an hour twice per week. I park my car as far from building as possible and walk and run my dog daily. If I didn't do this then I'd weigh about 180 lbs and have a 38 inch waist. Got there one time and refuse to let it happen again.

What is it with these fat women? They're everywhere. I'm drowning in a sea of fatties. It's disgusting. Put down the phukking fork and get some exercise.
And if they don't. Then fine. But why why why why why why why do they keep hitting on me? Why do I have to work to look good and have women expect me to settle for fat women?

I know some fatties I consider friends. They all seem to think they can cover it up with good hair and make up and nails and that their big tits are all that matters.

I just want a thin women. Is that too much to ask? I don't care about your huge tits. Hell I don't even care if your face is a little ugly. Just don't be fat!!! Women have become so fat that beauty means thin.

It's today's woman they ARE a POOR quality overall. NO self respect, no humility, no pride for taking care of their husband and family and being a good wife and mother. Nope, they will get divorced or cheat at the drop of a hat. These women today are a waste of flesh. They are too busy being on facebook flirting with orbiters at age 30. You would think one of these lazy fat women would get off of fb and their butts and maybe work and maintain a garden, exercise or workout or maybe something so petty is bake some goods.

These women are the biggest disappointment in human history. I cant wait to meet God I need an explaination

 

[bmp2cpm]

Women who want a man long term make an effort with their weight.

Overweight women don't want to get to close to any man long term. Essentially, overweight women in the US are modern day players.

Seriously, these women are getting a lot of sex with a lot of short-term hookups. Overweight women are bigger players than most of the guys on this board. They especially hang out online and should be avoided at all costs.

Online meetups put the man at huge disadvantages and allow the overweight woman to a become a super-player, all in guise of not being able to "find a good man". Best for overweight women to shame men for their situation to ensure that their reputation is elevated while they sleep with lot's of guys.

They are nothing but sneaky players.

 

[dustmuffin]

Women who want a man long term make an effort with their weight.

Overweight women don't want to get to close to any man long term. Essentially, overweight women in the US are modern day players.

Seriously, these women are getting a lot of sex with a lot of short-term hookups. Overweight women are bigger players than most of the guys on this board. They especially hang out online and should be avoided at all costs.

Online meetups put the man at huge disadvantages and allow the overweight woman to a become a super-player, all in guise of not being able to "find a good man". Best for overweight women to shame men for their situation to ensure that their reputation is elevated while they sleep with lot's of guys.

They are nothing but sneaky players.

I think men desperate for ***** **** them a few times and dump them. Some of your points are valid. They receive validation. My x wife weighed 95 pounds when we married and 30 of that was tits. She got comfortable and ballooned up into a whale.

 

[Solomon]

Lol @ OP

If you're doing online dating WTF you expect?

It boggles my mind how men on here always complain about fat women and than you find out they do online dating. And than about your story about the chick hitting on you, that's an anomaly

Are you hitting the field? Art Galleries/festivals/concerts/High End Lounges

Because the Gyro spot is not where slender women hang out last time I checked

 

[Yewki]

The issue is two fold. Everyone in general is getting fatter (bad diets and less physical activity), but women specifically are becoming fatter at their own excelerated rate and it's due to their increasing level of entitlement.

Whenever I see a guy/girl couple together, they're either 1) both overweight, 2) guy is in decent shape and the girl is overweight, or 3) their both in decent shape. Sadly 1 and 2 are the norm, while 3 is becoming rare. But either way, just seeing a female over 25 who isn't packing a lot of extra weight is uncommon.

A more extreme example, I work in a building with probably 2000+ people. It's a professional setting where the average age is around 35-40. Being morbidly obese here is fairly common. Almost every female who works here is overweight, at least 80%+. About 50-60% of the guys are overweight.

 

[dustmuffin]

Everyone is getting fatter its a fact.

 

[ubercat]

Heheh so keep lifting boys. Good news is DJs will have inherit the earth. Bad news is you ll breeding with a land whale.

 

[NSX-R]

lol you are lucky. I would prefer to have fat chicks hitting up on me than gay/old farts/underage females as now.

 

[Afrei]

The thing is that western society now days had taught women that a man should want to be with then for who they are not for what they look like, while suppressing male sexuality and teaching then how not to be superficial, they even have a words for it "been shallow" and it's very true that we live in a sea full of desperate men, one of my best friend she is 40 pounds overweight and it amaze me how easily and with what regularity she gets laid and some of the guys are good looking.

 

[sodbuster]

They believe all the "you go girl sh1t" Right after my Divorce, I had all kinds of women hitting on me. It would have been a fine line between drunk enough and whiskey d1ck. They think they "deserve" a man better than they are because of all the movies and fairy tales they get fed from birth. Starting with Cinderella and to today's Twilight. Unfortunately MEN don't cut this stuff short and STILL hook up with them {d@mn sex drive}

 

[glass half full]

this tread reminds me of a line from Walk This Way by Aerosmith...You ain't seen nothing till you're down on a "muffin" then you're sure to be a changing your ways...lol
I don't intend to hump any fatties, guess I'll just have a tougher time or pay for puzzy.

 

[In2theGame]

What is it with these fat women? They're everywhere. I'm drowning in a sea of fatties.

LOL

 

[dillj]

first thing to ask is "can you do 10 pushups"? If she doesn't drop and knock out the proof, next her, or pay the price later!