"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's up with all the fake and deleted accounts on POF?

goldengoose

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Every year from January - March I go on POF to check out women for early new year plates. I have to say this this is the worst looking batch of women I've ever came across. I've been very picky with who I talk to and it seems like I go through pages just to find a decent looking girl. Anyways, I had about 56 messages from women I wrote to. 31 from women who wrote to me. 21 of the women were from fake profiles. Each of the messages was the 2 of the same ones that wrote to me. "Hi, thnx for your message. I'm not on here that much but do you have an email where we can talk?"..."Hi I'm doing good today.".. So those were fake, Then women who I was only able to get 1 or 2 messages from had their accounts deleted before i could get their #. There was about 17 of them deleted. What a waste of time. POF isn't what it used to be. Anybody else seeing this sh1t too?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Poonani Maker

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So true. I know that if any just messages me outta the blue these days, she's more than likely an uber DAWG, just fat and disgusting. It's always a Nice message, or trying to be funny but it's just such clean humor and boring it's sad. If you're gonna be a fat girl hitting on me, please at least have good humor.
 
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