"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's this writer called, could be Bonecracker

Trainwreck

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He has a stuff posted on a blogger and it is woke af. Either forgot the name of the page site or the author.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rollo Tomassi
https://therationalmale.com

The Book of Bonecrcker
http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2003/01/the-book-of-bonecrker-table-of-contents.html?m=1

Pook's Mill
https://eternalbachelor.wordpress.com

Heartiste
https://heartiste.wordpress.com

Roosh V
http://www.rooshv.com

Yeah those are all the ones I can think of off the top of my head. Not sure how useful they are because I don't even read from blogs much but they have been the ones mentioned here most frequently anyway. Not sure how many others there are.
 
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