"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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whats this girls problem?

chance-

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i dont know her i was just tryin to start a conversation on facebook. was i being rude or anything? did i do something wrong? im thinking about deleting this b1tch.


me
when you gettin ya ass to <place> babe? <place> is boring! :D
16 minutes ago
her
ur boring!
15 minutes ago
me
i'll show you boring in a minute!
13 minutes ago ·
her
pfft u wish - im not going to <place> so good luck with that
12 minutes ago
me
guess i'll have to take my private jet plane to <place>... the moment i step off it <place> will get a whole lot better :p
10 minutes ago ·
her
sorry we dont let ur type in here - u have to be cool to get in....awwkkward....
9 minutes ago
me
ur right. i'm too cool for <place>. what was i thinking :s
5 minutes ago ·
her
..sure...thats it
3 minutes ago



i wasn't being serious... i was kidding around trying to be ****y.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Iceberg

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Do you ever deal with women who AREN'T on the computer?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kailex

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chance- said:
i dont know her i was just tryin to start a conversation on facebook.
Stop the DAMN FACEBOOK.
I've counted about at LEAST 5 different threads where I've addressed this issue to you.

ALL YOU DO IS FACEBOOK.

And you're not even good at it.

In fact, you are terrible at trying to game online women.

Know how I know?

Look at all the threads YOU have started asking why THEY are the womens acting all stupid.

Do you NOT see a pattern by now???
It's like Wile E Coyote buying the same ACME products, OVER and OVER and OVER.

In fact, I'll challenge SoSuave to find a thread from you that DOESN'T involve the word "Facebook" and "this woman/girl I'm talking to" in.

STEP AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER.
 
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