"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's this ******** for?

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So anyway, i had plans with the girl i've been talking to who's talking to me on the side, while her b/f is aware of me but no aware of how close we are. and she doesn't think i'm aware that they are back together. ANYWAYS

time rolls around

*ring ring*

Her : OMG my grandma just got into an accident i'm so sorry baby we can't chill tonight! (ok please!!)

Me : But i just called your house and your roomate said you haven't even come home yet.

Her : what are you talking about i left to take my other roomate to work! (uhh)

Me : Uhh... no?

Her : omg your pissing me off!!

Me : I didn't say anything all i'm say- *click*

Time rolls by

Her txt message : I don't wanna talk to somebody who thinks i'm a liar **** OFF!!

My txt message : All i wanted to do is chill, and i'm tryin to talk to you.

Her txt message : no! **** off!!

More time rolls by

My txt message : if you really want me to i'll **** off.

Her txt message : THANK YOU!

Time rolls by

My txt message : So you want me to **** off for good? or just tonight cuz i got stuff to do. and i'll make it so you don't gotta speak to me again

Her txt message : I'm SO sorry i'm being a ***** to you, I'm So sorry!! that i'm takeing all this **** out on you!

My txt : So does that mean just for tonight or you takeing everything back

her txt : I'm takeing it all back i'm sorry babe, you know i can't just stop talking to you like that. :(

Somebody translate because, i'm totally missing what just happend here. lol i know i'm probably gonna get NEXT HER. But i mean i know why she's putting up this front. Its because she likes me but is going out with him again for the 15th time. Its just a waiting game, unitl her intrest in him goes below 50%. Which won't be long because he's at her house 24/7

Who would stay in this situation and ride it out.. by the way i'm talking to another girl on the side that's why i wasn't really "moved" by her hissy fit
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Typical 40-49% interest level disease. Act like they like you one moment and hate you the next (bipolar?). Needless to say, you should NEXT this broad.

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What the **** is this? You're her ****ing toy. Get a clue.
 
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Originally posted by BGMan
Typical 40-49% interest level disease. Act like they like you one moment and hate you the next (bipolar?). Needless to say, you should NEXT this broad.

BGMan
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but how is it that she keeps gettin back with her ex over and over and dumping him over and over for the same reasons? its retarted..

however, i dunno if her intrest is that low seeing as it was so high only days ago, i only told the story tonight which has been the only real bump with us she does go through with most plans.. just recently though she's been droppin plans.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i think she's at a point where i'll ignore her and play it like i did before i even had her #'s the thing about it is we work at the same place.

just not in the same dept (thank god) so all points taken, we should at least remain friends.. i'll man up and push her to the side but that doesn't mean i won't be watchin her moves.

and honestly ignoreing her, results in an instant reaction even after just two days she'll be all over me wondering what i've been up to why i haven't called, getting jelous over other females

in fact she still gets jelous now.. so that's why i think her intrest level isn't in the 40-49% range as when were together how rare that is.. she's holding hands and kissing i'm thinking at least 70%-79% so shes intrested just not intrested enough so that she feels she needs to go through with all our plans
 
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Originally posted by christz


Her : OMG my grandma just got into an accident i'm so sorry baby we can't chill tonight! (ok please!!)
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I would have left it at that.

Agreed with Lik.
 
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Re: Re: What's this ******** for?

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I would have left it at that.

Agreed with Lik.
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i sorta did, that's why she got so pissed.. however i gave her an out i said i'll go and yet she didn't take it..

she's not the kinda girl that's shy to say YEP get the hell out. she's said it before and she can say it again. So until she verbally says it and means it.. GET OUT

i'll stick around just enough to peak her intrest.. its a game really i do have another girl on the side.. but i'm kinda hard up in beliveing that you can't change a situation once its reached a certian level.. because i've literally pulled stuff outta the gutter and made it work for a long time
 
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Shut up. Quit posting. No one cares for your excuses or justifications.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
No one cares for your excuses or justifications.
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I second that opinion.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol I agree w/ some of the statements above, but you guys are pretty harsh :)
 
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I never usually have a rude opinion but I'd say you need to get your balls back from her because shes wearing them as earrings...
 
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Originally posted by blue17
lol I agree w/ some of the statements above, but you guys are pretty harsh :)
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We're not here to baby them :eek:
 
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Originally posted by blue17
lol I agree w/ some of the statements above, but you guys are pretty harsh :)
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The only way most people learn... is when you slap them down, and build them back up.

Pretty much like what the Corps does...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This girl is totally BSing you.

all of what she said is ******** for I'm a dirty little slut that can't be trusted but I still need you to fcuk me hard.

This girl won't ever leave you so don't worry about it. She will always open her legs. She will be doing that for the rest of her life actually :) going from guy to guy and then maybe a sweet divorce. I wouldn't worry about her and I wouldn't EVER take her seriously.

I would totally use this girl for action and only that.

some advice
Date other girls and if she calls or flakes on you don't worry about it. You shouldn't be playing a waiting game at all. Shame on you. Who the fcuk do you think she is anyway? Your soulmate from heaven? Awe.. how cute.

Be a man and don't let a little **** like her take up your time. What about all those other girls you are dating? What about all your personal goals? Don't you spend most of your free time fending off all the girls that want you? When was the last time you called a girl and told her that you couldn't go out because you were busy?
 
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