"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's this called? Vanity? Ego?

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Someone help me break this down...

I kill time by browsing myspace profiles sometimes and one thing I simply cannot understand is how out of touch some of these females seem to be.

The hot ones with all the "SEXY, BEAUTIFUL, YOU WISH YOU WERE F*CKING ME" glitter makes me want to puke. It's like an Internet "b1tch shield" that's just AMPLIFIED and accepted (judging by the comments).

Christ! What the hell is happening here? Are the egos of these women THAT GALACTIC in size? WHO are these guys PANDERING to their egos? YOU? STOP IT.

Why do I this powerful URGE to tell them to fvck themselves? I feel like telling all the NON-HOT ones especially that they need to take a SERIOUS look in the mirror. It's like some guys are so desperate for p*ssy they pander to even the most AVERAGE looking women. WTF?

*Flame-suit on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wjh said:
It's like some guys are so desperate for p*ssy they pander to even the most AVERAGE looking women. WTF?
Unfortunately that is totally true, but if they are pandering it's not like they get it. I also find myspace to full of total bimbos like you are describing and don't even bother to have a profile or entertain the site. I'd be shocked if someone actually finds a quality (more than looks) girl on myspace. I don't think I could tolerate being in the presence of a girl like the one you described for long enough to pound 'em out and forget them.
 

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wjh said:
It's like some guys are so desperate for p*ssy they pander to even the most AVERAGE looking women. WTF?
Part of it is due to the obesity pandemic. Any chick that is slim-ish automatically thinks she's super hot and plenty of guys are also chasing her like she's the last woman on earth.

Actually I take that back. Even the fatties now think that they're BBW or some similar BS. If you ask a guy how he rates his own looks, usually you'll get average looking or fugly if he has a sense of humour. With chicks, I've seen & heard so many "Friends told me I'm attractive"s I've lost count.
 

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Haha its that girl's "Pack defense" type thing. On facebook when I look at a friends pictures, even if the picture looks weird, and the girl doesn't even look great in the first place (the girl's eyes are off, we all have our bad pictures), theres always an army of other girls saying "OMG your so pretty/hot/good looking!" "I'm so jealous!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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