What's this board really for

[DJinTraining06]

I've been wondering about this board. Is the purpose of it to learn how to be good with women to get laid? Or is it to learn how to be good with women for anything such as: getting laid and relationships

Cuz i'm really done trying to meet tons of women and get laid alot. Not what i want anymore. In high school, college, few yrs after college even that was cool. But now i kinda just want a good relationship. Should i be following the advice of this board. Cuz i what i notice happening is that i do great with girls in the beggining and then when they realize im not that act that i was putting on and that i really like them, they lose interest.

My real question is, do u have to keep up the act forever. Ifd u end up have a long term thing and even marriage someday, do u always have to act?

I dont wanna live like that. Shouldn't the girl ur in a ltr with or married to just lvoe u for u? Im not sayin i wanna be a total afc wuss, but im tired of acting aloof and crap. I would like to just go out and enjoy my gf's and have fun with them and actually have them appreciate the fact that i like them and not be turned off by it. Is this possible?

 

[lafual]

i use this board to get laid.. im 16, i started to read this 1year ago.. and now im getting laid..weee^^ anyway.. when you are in high school/college you should have fun.. go to parties.. **** every women you want to ****.. "im gonna **** her, and her and her.. today" and so you ****.. anyway when im getting older like 22-26 im gonoing to be more serious.. be in serious relationship.. but when you are 16or 18 or 19.. u should have fun..

 

[Sean O]

Cuz i what i notice happening is that i do great with girls in the beggining and then when they realize im not that act that i was putting on and that i really like them, they lose interest.

There's your problem. You have no inner game. You put up the PUA front and can impress them enough to get a lay, but once you go for a relationship they see the AFC within you and they bail. And btw, there's nothing wrong with liking a girl, and there's also nothing wrong with showing it. The key thing is to do it from a position of strength (like a DJ), rather than from a position of neediness (like an AFC). Also, you should never show more interest in a girl than she shows in you. That's the best way to be a challenge.

My real question is, do u have to keep up the act forever. Ifd u end up have a long term thing and even marriage someday, do u always have to act?

You shouldn't have to act; it should all be natural. That's the point of developing inner game: to be a DJ without even thinking of it. And believe me, it's SO much easier (and also more effective) once you do this. You'll no longer be thinking "what C+F line should I use next?" or "what pattern should I run now?" when you're chatting it up with a chick. And since you won't be worrying about these stupid things, you won't be nervous, so you can focus on the interaction more and be able to really connect with the girl. And really, inner game doesn't just help you with dealing with women. You'll notice you handle life in general a lot better when your self confidence, self esteem, and attitude are all in check.

As far as what this board is about, I'd say the best way to sum it all up is: to become a true man. What does this mean? It basically means developing inner game. To be strong. To be a leader. Having these attributes will allow you to be more successful in all aspects of life, whether it's fitness-related, career-related, woman-related, or whatever your goals may be. This site is about developing the constitution to build yourself a great life.