"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's their problem?

Socialreject

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Hey, figured i'd post this and see what you guys make of it...

Recently i've been introduced by a friend into a new 'friends' group. Seemed like an ok bunch, no whiners, not tomuch AFCness and generally good fun.

That is untill i started sowing my seeds around the group hehe. Now these guys are like your average joes. They dress in tattered jeans, with some random over/undersized shirt/whatever, loose unkemth hair... you know the types. Personally i always dress very well and i'm always groomed and generally look my best. There was a girl in the group as well. About an HB7.5 orso. She seemed nice so i made some moves on her. Got her number the first night i was introduced to her, wen't on some dates and on the third date i ended up staying over at her appartment and closed the deal.

I was actually planning on seeying this girl a bit more since she seemed like an ok sort. That however was quickly over with when i started getting weird questions from her about other girls i've been hanging out with, hehe. Apparantly she had been hearing all sorts of things, most of them lies. From her best friend in that group who is imho a big ol' ****block. He's been trying to run his mouth when i'm talking to her from square one. I guess he's got a thing for her but won't fess up to it because he's scared or whatever :rolleyes: . He's her best friend you know what i mean ;-)

So i got fed up with her and started ignoring her basically. Now she's furious with me ^^. Ever since the other guys in that group have been busting on me... very under the radar stuff. Commenting on how i look... you know, classic backhand comments. Hey what's up cassanova, don corleon, macho etc etc. It's like fvcking revenge of the nerds on my hands. I haven't really gone as far as to give them a piece of mind yet because i know my best friend is chummy with them... i want to though.

Seems like they got a problem with guys who make moves on the girls in their group, a problem with guys who dress better than them, look better than them...

I call it envy... what's your view on this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Julian

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Do you value this chick in any way?

how do you respond when they call you don juan an cassanova etc?


If someone is like "whats up casanova" in a backhanded way id just respond with "whats up richard simmons" Lol.


Either way jsut stay alpha. if this chick is furious you ignore her then she obviously is diggin you, why else would she pissed about you not being around?

So keep it real and keep bangin it. if those haters keep stuntin on you just seal them in a lyrical sarcophogus.
 

Socialreject

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She doesn't mean anything to me. She's insecure and lashes out because of it, so screw her... Don't actually know what her problem is anyways. She acted like a ***** towards me because of some **** she heard that wasn't even true. Like i owe her an explanation, yeah right :rolleyes: . So i just gave her the silent treatment and been doing so ever since. When she sees me she stares at me like she wants to shoot me dead with her eyes... ballsy chick :p

How do i respond? I don't, just stare at them and grin. They are kinda numb so ;-)
 
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