"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's the Worst Kind of Sexual Frustration?

What's the Worst Type of Sexual Frustration?

  • Being an eager virgin

    Votes: 6 37.5%
  • Knowing what you're missing

    Votes: 10 62.5%

  • Total voters
    16

Piece_Maker

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Sup peeps.

I'm 22, and it's been around 10 months or so since I did the Humpty Dance.

As you can imagine, I'm WAY past due.

My friend, who is also 22, is a virgin.

...um...needless to say, he is also WAY past due.

In the midst of whining about "needing some pvssy," we had a short debate.

Basically:

HIM: Man, being a virgin's tough cuz you want sex all the time, with anything that moves. You just want to DO it just for the sake of doing it. It's so frustrating. YOU'VE already had sex...therefore I want/need it more than you.

ME: Well, in your case you don't know what you're missing. Since I've already had some of the good stuff, I already know what I'm missing out on. And damn, do I wish I had some more of it. Therefore, I want/need it more than you.

I still think I'm right.

So guys...which do you think is the worst form of sexual frustration?

Being an eager virgin, or having a taste then being starved?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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gruby

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I think it's stupid question but since i got nothing else to do for next 8 minutes i'll say what i have to say.

I think there are 2 kinds of people: those who are really into sex and those who are into sex. I'm the second one meaning that sex is all nice and stuff but there are things that are way better. As with everything there are pluses and minuses to being one or the other. For me it was OK before loosing my virginity and now is even more OK (last time i got laid was 2.5 week ago) after -- meaning i really don't care as much as i used to about being physical.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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What's the worst kind of sexual frustration?

Marriage.
 
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