Hi, i've been in a relationship for around 7 months. The relationship itself is great because shes really attracted to me and im leading the way just like it should be.
However, i have noticed this really annoying habbit of hers:
She makes blatant eye contact with other guys and checks people out regardless of what we are talking about or doing.
Now, its not a jealous thing here. I couldn't care less about her having normal eye contact with other men as that is completely natural. Everyone does that.
The point im making here is she goes way overboard with it.
Let me give you a real life example. The other day we were having a laugh at a bar and then a group of guys come and sit near us. I notice she begins to invest much less into the conversation while blatantly looking over at the guys every 10 seconds. This will last for as long as we are in the place.
The thing that gets to me is I make time to see her. Im giving her my attention and i don't know about you but that gets on my nerves.
After re reading what i have just wrote i think it sounds like shes just bored of the conversation. Which isnt true. Shes laughing hard and im busting on her and shes loving it. BUT as soon as other males who might be considered "attractive" enter the place she changes to what i explained above.
The problem: if i say anything about this to her im going to come off as insecure
Whats the suave way to deal with this ?
Thanks,
D
However, i have noticed this really annoying habbit of hers:
She makes blatant eye contact with other guys and checks people out regardless of what we are talking about or doing.
Now, its not a jealous thing here. I couldn't care less about her having normal eye contact with other men as that is completely natural. Everyone does that.
The point im making here is she goes way overboard with it.
Let me give you a real life example. The other day we were having a laugh at a bar and then a group of guys come and sit near us. I notice she begins to invest much less into the conversation while blatantly looking over at the guys every 10 seconds. This will last for as long as we are in the place.
The thing that gets to me is I make time to see her. Im giving her my attention and i don't know about you but that gets on my nerves.
After re reading what i have just wrote i think it sounds like shes just bored of the conversation. Which isnt true. Shes laughing hard and im busting on her and shes loving it. BUT as soon as other males who might be considered "attractive" enter the place she changes to what i explained above.
The problem: if i say anything about this to her im going to come off as insecure
Whats the suave way to deal with this ?
Thanks,
D