"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Game_going_good

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if a girl you are seeing, everytime you're with her, she offers you her drink? Like throughout the meeting, she manages to at least once say "need water?", sometimes already opened by her, other times she lets you get the first sips?

story behind this? I read it somewhere but forgot it.(the link etc). Does it really mean she wants you to kiss her, and is testing wheather you'll drink from the same bottle? (and of course, she is ready to drink from the same bottle after you if she hands you a sealed bottle )

thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJCorleone

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Sounds like shes dropped e's to me bro...
 

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E's...as in hints? Sorry, not a regular here, not familiar with the acronym terms(tried finding a dictionary here but to no avail).
 

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Definitely could be hints. Why would a chick offer her water to you? Maybe once, but multiple times? Why don't you just ask her out?
 

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Sounds like she might be your waitress, but I'm not sure. Is she wearing a name tag and a Denny's shirt? Definitely check next time. Good luck.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Voice said:
Sounds like she might be your waitress, but I'm not sure. Is she wearing a name tag and a Denny's shirt? Definitely check next time. Good luck.
I don't think that's good restaurant etiquette
 
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