What's the single worst advice you got or product you bought in regards to chicks?

[BeDJ]

ive heard this before too from a few different guys, whenever they texted a woman after the date to say they had a good time, it was game over regardless of how well the date went. what is the reason for this? anyone know ?

Insecurity
Validation
Clingyness
No options
Pedestalizationism

I got Ninja'ed

 

[foreverAFC]

just being polite is enough to get you nexted, its that easy huh, good times

 

[floydb25]

just being polite is enough to get you nexted, its that easy huh, good times

This line of thinking is actually what causes a lot of problems. Not a lot of people care about how polite, genuine, or good you are - nor do they view things this way. They care more about status, and **** like that.

So, while you think you're being a good guy or gentleman by doing these things - like focusing solely on them, telling them you like them, doing all these kind gestures for them, reassuring them, bringing yourself down to their level and sharing insecurities / rejections to prove that you wont leave them, and making yourself appear more "normal", faithful, genuine, and less intimidating and unavailable in their eyes - even if they SAY its what they want - they're viewing you as low status, desperate, clingy, undesirable (by other women), etc. They want the best catch; the highest in demand. A lot of these things they "hate" is what they seek after vigorously - for this very reason.

This is where a lot of guys get confused, because what they thought would work is actually killing their interest's attraction towards them. But the guy who's making them uncertain - even if he's a jerk or player - is intriguing them, making them wonder, having them pursue harder to win their affection, and getting them to commit to them, and so forth. All of this despite complaining about them constantly, and claiming to want the opposite.

This is the illogical nature of attraction, and these things occur simultaneously. "Oh, he's a jerk, he's dating other girls, he's not interested, I hate him, blah blah, but you already like me"... Guess who she's interested in, chasing after, trying to prove her worth to, etc? Not the guy who she knows is already interested - even if its what she SAYS she wants - literally as she's contradicting herself, and seeking the opposite... Too easy, not exciting, nothing to worry about, over-eager, no challenge or mystery = no attraction. But you can give them attention, feed their ego, listen to them complain and give them advice, etc, like a good "friend".

Being good or bad means **** all, there is no direct connection between their words and actions, and everything you think is right is wrong.

It's all a game, really. But one you gotta play.

Good day.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

1. Approach women at the bar and pretend to be gay. She'll work extra hard to convince you to become straight.

2. You got rejected because you simply weren't confident enough/ tight enough game. It had nothing to do with you looks. Buy my system for 29.99 and learn the 5 magic words that guarantee success with any woman.

3. Ross Jeffries- Send her a letter and sign it "from your secret admirer." Next day show up at her workplace with a T-shirt stating "Im your secret admirer.

4. Keep a list of all the women that reject you and text them all once a month. They may all of a sudden become available a few years down the road.

5. Run a boyfriend Destroyer Pattern.

 

[Omerta]

Being told I wasn't being emotional enough, tried to fake it... wasn't congruent and felt like overall ****.

 

[yyc12]

4. Keep a list of all the women that reject you and text them all once a month. They may all of a sudden become available a few years down the road.

seriously????? :crazy: