"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mendigoazul

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hey, guys I have a question for you all. well, I like this girl that I met in high school. we haven't seen each other for two years until we once agian met up in college. I asked her out and she said yes. i really want her to be my girlfriend but I do not know when I should ask her. What do you guys think. Any comments welcomed
Thanks,
Medigo
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i already did and we are going out tomorow. I was just wondering (depending how it goes) when it would be a good time for me to ask her to if she want's to be my girlfriend.
 

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thanks guys! I dont really date so I have no idea what i'm doing. thanks again.
mendigo
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wolf said:
You're forgetting, we don't know the age of this guy... A lot of high schoolers have to "ask" the girl to be their girlfriend, it doesn't always work as it should in school settings.

And you're assuming I didn't take that into account.


At what stage does a boy transition into a Man?

Think about that, and then make a personal observation for yourself as to what MY motivation might be....

Thanks.

Interceptor
 

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Wow, mendigo, you are a real chump. Read the Bible man so you don't blow it with this girl.

Link at the bottom of every page

And Interceptor is right
 

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Interceptor, thanks for the link. it gave me a chance to think about what I was about to do.
Wow, mendigo, you are a real chump.
Lol, tell me about it. Im thankful I found this site because I REALLY dont know what I'm doing.
Thanks guys for the advice, You guys are the best!!
mendigo

oh, by the way im not in highschool im a sophmore in college.
 
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