"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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whats the most tactful way to ask about her infection?

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Dear PDX,
Seems that no one has a serious answer to your problem...I very much doubt that it is an infection....In my experience,it is either one or both,personal hygiene or body odour.....Usually both.
I had a great Bird once,with the same problem....It was a deal breaker,I never summoned up the courage to tell her,just let things drift until we broke up...
Interesting,Chinese Ladies have no perceptible odour,even if they don't bathe for a week.....They find us Anglos really offensive,think we smell of cooked Lamb...I always shower,before meeting either of my current Asian Girls and putting Female scent on....As a stupid aside,I have noticed my old Dog instinctively makes friends with Asian Folk,Dogs have a sense of smell thousands of times keener than ours..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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