"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's the ladies favourite muscle group?

Ladies fav. muscle group?

  • Shoulders

    Votes: 6 16.7%

  • Back

    Votes: 3 8.3%

  • Chest

    Votes: 3 8.3%

  • Arms

    Votes: 2 5.6%

  • Abs

    Votes: 20 55.6%

  • Legs

    Votes: 2 5.6%
  • Total voters
    36
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Sammo

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Just thought we would have a bit of fun!

Post your oppinions here and why you think this. Oh, and if you happen to be female (and i mean a REAL female [ie not a male in disguise as a female ;) ] ) then your input would be greatly appreciated.

I have to say the girls favourite muscle group is a toss-up between the abs, arms & back. Abs and arms are obvious, my gf allways goes crazy over them but i think a developed back is EXTREMELY attrictive to the ladies, or maybe i only think that b/c its my best muscle group. Either way, their the 3 muscle groups i have that girls seem to like.

Vote and voice your input:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I-am-someone

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I voted abs. Ofcourse I can't be sure, but I have always noticed how women always get an immediate sexual attraction when a guy shows off his great abs.

However, seeing as you don't usually see them unless you're not wearing any clothes, I'd have to say that the back and the shoulders (what's the difference by the way?) are quite important for first contact, as this is the first thing they will notice.

Ofcourse, I'm not a girl. I am saying these things based purely on deterministic thinking instead of female thinking. I may be completely off ;)
 
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I know for a fact that a LOT of girls look for a nice ass on a guy. Dont ask me why, they just do.
 
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i dont know about you guys, but they sure like my 12inch pecker....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Double
shoulders,chest,back
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yes, yes and yes.

I am tempted to say abs but since they are mostly hidden, they are rarely a factor for attraction.
 
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Come on, Sammo! Off to Anything Else with you...

By the way, my vote goes to abs. B9, the question asks which section the ladies are most attracted to, not which they see the most. For whatever reason, it seems to be the one that garnishes the most attention and the most requests to touch them... :p
 
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Does ass count as leg muscles? Subconciously a good ass on a guy shows the women that he has a good hormone balance so guys start working those ass muscles.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by wildchild
Does ass count as leg muscles? Subconciously a good ass on a guy shows the women that he has a good hormone balance so guys start working those ass muscles.
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True...

IMO unless you're on the beach, the things that matter are:

Ass, back, traps

you can't see anything else.
 
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Yeah im going with "Meat and potatoes" muscle group on this one ;-)
 
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