"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Whats the in`fat`uation with BBW's?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Iceberg

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There are a lot of weird people with a lot of weird fetishes.

I remember I was at a work holiday party with an ex girlfriend like 3 or 4 years ago. Coworkers would bring their wives, girlfriends, or various significant others.

We see this one guy Jim, a good looking dude. Blonde, 6 feet tall, in good shape....a bit of a dork, but whatever. And he introduces us to his wife, who wasn't "ugly", but she was literally 3x Jim's size. Huge. And this was BEFORE he got her pregnant.

So, we shake hands with them, and they walk off, and I continue talking to my girl about whatever the f**k I was talking about. She stops me mid-sentence ans says, "So...we're just going to ignore that, right? We're not going to acknowledge that he could literally live inside of her?"

Point is - it defies everything I believe about attraction, but some dudes legitimately have this sick fetish for fat chicks. It's creepy. But I've seen it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alex DeLarge

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Some dudes are in to fat chix.

Personally, I'm a sucker for chicks with pale skin/dark hair smaller boobs types physically speaking. Think Zooey Deschanel, Katy Perry, and porn star Sasha Grey.

Just like some dudes only like really tan blonde girls.
 

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i get it about phat asses and either small tits/or large tits combo - but when it comes to that repulsive blubber round their gut, that is a sign to all and sundry that she is a feeder not a breeder then how do guys get a bone on for that? Its like those japanese s hit videos or other unhealthy stuff - guess some men are just fooked up with their tastes
 

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TonyBaloney said:
Come on man, dont be a f uck wit, i thought this was a mans discussion board, not a womens institute tea and biscuits gossip session.
Ok I see what you're doing.
If you ask me fat women are annoying and usually get on the way of me picking up their hot friends, so if theres some guy that wants to take care of her he's got my full support. Hell, I'll buy him a beer.

BBW fetishes are gross but at the same time I'm sure you wash your face after you wash your ass from time to time so lets not judge others.
 

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I'm kind of bigger dude (6'4" 280) so a bigger girl kind of fits me.

Skinny girls can actually get hurt if I'm not careful. Give me a bigger girl any day.

I think I've gotten used to soft curves as time has gone on.
 

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Iceberg said:
it defies everything I believe about attraction, but some dudes legitimately have this sick fetish for fat chicks. It's creepy. But I've seen it.
I don't think its a fetish but rather its "this is the best that I could get". I am sure if Jim had more confidence he would get more slim & attractive women but internally he is an AFC & therefore he was left to fight for scraps (whom his fat wife ate & won :crackup: )

One thing I noticed about fat chicks is that they really make it easy for you to hook up with them because they aren't passive and wait for the guy to make the first move. I tend to be nice to every woman I meet (fat, slim, old, ugly & attractive) so when a fattie encounters a guy like myself that is actually nice to her rather then not give a sh1t, she automatically assumes that he is interested in her and that she has a shot with him (unlike attractive women who assume most men are interested in them and therefore the one guy that won't put them on the pedestal, is the man they will fall for).

I still don't know how some guys can actually fvck a fat woman, it would make me sick.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TonyBaloney said:
Does the absurdity of the 21st century know no bounds???

W.T.F is it, with guys jackin off over fat slugs who parade themselves as `BBW's`

I dont get it???

Do you????
Desperate people do desperate things...
 

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Mainly I'm a fan of a big ass. Kind of like a Kim Kardashian or Tahiry Jose ass. But I'm not a big fan of the "BBW", some like them some don't. To each their own.
 

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Given the choice between a chick who's thin as a twig and one who's just a bit chubby I'll take the second one. I'd rather have some soft curves to cover those bones.

PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I like thick, sometimes it crosses the line a bit but I cant hang with a gut, thats gross. There are def chicks I want to bang that I would not be seen in public with though.
I know what you mean, there's a chick at work who'd I'd be all over if her belly wasn't hanging out in front of her (and has only gotten worse over the past year). It's a shame as when you see her from the back it's obvious that she'd be almost a perfect hourglass if she lost the gut.
 

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TonyBaloney said:
i get it about phat asses and either small tits/or large tits combo - but when it comes to that repulsive blubber round their gut, that is a sign to all and sundry that she is a feeder not a breeder then how do guys get a bone on for that? Its like those japanese s hit videos or other unhealthy stuff - guess some men are just fooked up with their tastes
Some guys can't do black women even if they look like Beyonce. Others, like A-rod, who have trillions of dollars, have a liking for the she-male, muscular types like Madonna.

It's all relative, can't get upset at people's tastes.
 

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Fat chicks do make me sick. Feeling the fat blobbing around during sex like waves on a waterbed: this is disgusting. Then there's the ability to hold onto "luv handles" just by grabbing anywhere. Then there's the fat fingers when you hold hands. Breasts that give little milk, but sag and bag like they're for real -- all show, no go. Awkward shaped asses. She looks like an M&M with legs -- especially in her pregnancy video. And so on and so forth.

Don't go there. Seriously.

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I am not her man. She can't stand the thought of me touching her. She's dripping with other men's semen. She is ashamed to be seen with me. She never misses an opportunity to disrespect me. Everything I do is wrong. I am the problem. She got what she wanted from me. She says "I hate you so much I could kill you." Going away forever will make her happy again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When all that's left for dinner is burnt potatoes, you learn to enjoy them.
 

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To me this is very difficult to understand. I have always dated very slim and very active girls. I don't llike the anorexic types, but my girl has to be in shape. You know, a girl who works out almost always has a great ass. To me that's important. Fat people are usually lazy people. Lazy means I can't go on roadtrips with them, I can't play sports with them, I can't have very athletic sex and to top it all off, they probably don't even cook all that well either.

Perhaps it's something for guys with very low self esteem, I don't know. I'll admit to just not getting it. If it's their thing, cool, but I doubt they're genuinely happy.
 

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In my opinion a BBW looses all her appeal if she doesn't have nice cans. And even then she cant be too fat. A nice plumper with big hooters is right up my alley. My two requirements is nice cans and perfect skin. No dark skin by the privates, or pimples or any other gross stuff. But yeah i'd totally prefer a plump girl over a skinny girl with little boobs. Very rarely can a girl be thin and have the kind of breasts I prefer without plastic surgery.
 

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There are differen't levels of big.

Personally I am not a fan of stick insects and like a girl to have bit of meat on her, just so long as it is meat and not fat then as far as I'm concerned the more meat the better (Im not a cannibal)

If it is flesh as opposed to fat then I like thicker legs, a bigger bum and naturally bigger breasts.

However if she has rolls of fat hanging out over her belt, 5 chins and her legs need to burst that is fairly disgusting, I could never let myself get like that.

Then again If a slightly overweight but not repulsively so one was to help me get off the ground, well I'd consider it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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