"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's the fascination with pornstars?

3agle 3yes

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I just googled an unspectacular pornstar (Gianna Michaels) that I've heard many guys say is very hot.

To my astonishment I saw many threads on forums throughout the web about how hot hardcore pornstars are. Most are average at best, that's for sure, especially the ones I saw people using as an example for attractiveness.

By the way, I'm mostly referring to hardcore pornstars (work with men)...the ones that most guys prefer. What's so hot about a woman who gets gangbanged, swallows ***, takes it in the ass by random guys that they don't know the name of for cash? (anybody who thinks they do it for pleasure needs to go out more)

Ironically, (I'm trying to be sarcastic here) the lesbian only pornstars and/or softcore ones are generally more attractive. I would also add hardcore pornstars that don't wok with alot of men.

To put it more plainly the more inhibited they are, (in terms of what they do on camera) the more attractive they tend to be. This isn't surprising to me.

So, the question remains. If most are average looking why do guys love them so much?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You know what? It doesn't matter...I don't care anymore.


Mod, please close this thread.
 

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3agle 3yes said:
I just googled an unspectacular pornstar (Gianna Michaels) that I've heard many guys say is very hot.

To my astonishment I saw many threads on forums throughout the web about how hot hardcore pornstars are. Most are average at best, that's for sure, especially the ones I saw people using as an example for attractiveness.

By the way, I'm mostly referring to hardcore pornstars (work with men)...the ones that most guys prefer. What's so hot about a woman who gets gangbanged, swallows ***, takes it in the ass by random guys that they don't know the name of for cash? (anybody who thinks they do it for pleasure needs to go out more)

Ironically, (I'm trying to be sarcastic here) the lesbian only pornstars and/or softcore ones are generally more attractive. I would also add hardcore pornstars that don't wok with alot of men.

To put it more plainly the more inhibited they are, (in terms of what they do on camera) the more attractive they tend to be. This isn't surprising to me.

So, the question remains. If most are average looking why do guys love them so much?

cause the majority of guys who watch porn and fawn over pornstars never or rarely get ***** in real life

it all have to do with lust, when your having sex or jacking your meat off you think damn near any chick is beautiful
 

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3agle 3yes said:
I just googled an unspectacular pornstar (Gianna Michaels) that I've heard many guys say is very hot.

To my astonishment I saw many threads on forums throughout the web about how hot hardcore pornstars are. Most are average at best, that's for sure, especially the ones I saw people using as an example for attractiveness.

By the way, I'm mostly referring to hardcore pornstars (work with men)...the ones that most guys prefer. What's so hot about a woman who gets gangbanged, swallows ***, takes it in the ass by random guys that they don't know the name of for cash? (anybody who thinks they do it for pleasure needs to go out more)

Ironically, (I'm trying to be sarcastic here) the lesbian only pornstars and/or softcore ones are generally more attractive. I would also add hardcore pornstars that don't wok with alot of men.

To put it more plainly the more inhibited they are, (in terms of what they do on camera) the more attractive they tend to be. This isn't surprising to me.

So, the question remains. If most are average looking why do guys love them so much?
I agree. Most of the modern female hard-core porn stars are not that good looking and just nasty and disgusting. Plus a lot of them are older and past their prime.

In the 80's there were a few decent looking female porn stars. Like Christy Canyon for instance when she first started at 18 years old and when she came back to porn again around age 24.

But the standards men have today for female attractiveness have dropped in general imo.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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