"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's the difference between "she likes you but is just shy" and "she doesn't like u

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Hi,

Out of curiousity, how can you determine the difference between the girl being shy in your presence or just blatantly doesn't like you? I never seemed to be able to tell, as both have seemed to be just straight out cold and unreceptive to anything I do (e.g. even the best jokes aren't funny).

What can you look for to verify that the girl is merely shy?

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey, I'm going (place) on (date), fancy joining me?

Or something to that effect. Thats the best way.



After saying that there are a few things, no doubt done before so I'd suggest a search.

Generally I've always used my instinct.
 
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Shy girls will NOT act cold and unresponsive if they're interested. They'll blush, get embarrassed, play with their hair a lot, laugh at all you jokes even if they're not funny, etc. She will feel and act intimidated, but she will NEVER ignore you.

Imagine how a major AFC would act around an HB10...This is similar to how a shy girl will act around you if she's really interested.
 
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What I've noticed about shy and interested girls is that they will always respond eagerly when you make the effort to speak to them.

In my experience, shy and interested girls seem to need to be "invited" to talk to you otherwise they'll just try to play cool around you.

However, instead of joking around, try holding a one on one conversation with her, ask questions about her interests. It's the most effective way to break through a shy girl's defences.
 
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If you get the chick in bed, you can bet that she's into you. From experience, everything else is irrelevant when it comes to women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by tristan22
If you get the chick in bed, you can bet that she's into you. From experience, everything else is irrelevant when it comes to women.
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LOL :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Well, the deal is this...

Women who are interested will respond to your flirting whether they are shy or not.

If she's shy, you'll just have to approach her and talk to her, but she'll eventually open up and RESPOND TO YOUR COMMUNICATION.

Women who are not interested will not respond to your flirting whether they are shy nor not.
 
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