What's the difference between "she likes you but is just shy" and "she doesn't like u

[John_Smith]

Hi,

Out of curiousity, how can you determine the difference between the girl being shy in your presence or just blatantly doesn't like you? I never seemed to be able to tell, as both have seemed to be just straight out cold and unreceptive to anything I do (e.g. even the best jokes aren't funny).

What can you look for to verify that the girl is merely shy?

Thanks

 

[aftershock]

Hey, I'm going (place) on (date), fancy joining me?

Or something to that effect. Thats the best way.



After saying that there are a few things, no doubt done before so I'd suggest a search.

Generally I've always used my instinct.

 

[Interpol]

Shy girls will NOT act cold and unresponsive if they're interested. They'll blush, get embarrassed, play with their hair a lot, laugh at all you jokes even if they're not funny, etc. She will feel and act intimidated, but she will NEVER ignore you.

Imagine how a major AFC would act around an HB10...This is similar to how a shy girl will act around you if she's really interested.

 

[Jariel]

What I've noticed about shy and interested girls is that they will always respond eagerly when you make the effort to speak to them.

In my experience, shy and interested girls seem to need to be "invited" to talk to you otherwise they'll just try to play cool around you.

However, instead of joking around, try holding a one on one conversation with her, ask questions about her interests. It's the most effective way to break through a shy girl's defences.

 

[tristan22]

If you get the chick in bed, you can bet that she's into you. From experience, everything else is irrelevant when it comes to women.

 

[John_Smith]

Originally posted by tristan22
If you get the chick in bed, you can bet that she's into you. From experience, everything else is irrelevant when it comes to women.

LOL :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well, the deal is this...

Women who are interested will respond to your flirting whether they are shy or not.

If she's shy, you'll just have to approach her and talk to her, but she'll eventually open up and RESPOND TO YOUR COMMUNICATION.

Women who are not interested will not respond to your flirting whether they are shy nor not.