What's the difference between "I am not sure if you love me?" and.."

[Scarlatti]

.. "I am not sure if I love you?". Sounds like a big difference. But could it be that in both cases she is simply focussing on parts of you she doesn't like and takes the good things for granted?

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Scarlatti,
Firstly,has your post on the Chinese Girl been removed?Secondly, Hate to say it but you are really not behaving as a DJ should,you have pedastalised this Chinese Lady?,if she is running rings round you what hope have you got with a tricky Caucasion?

 

[Scarlatti]

Hi Scaramouche

I don't think I have pedastalised her. I have done this with other women when I was younger. And I know what happens then. This time, I have actually played cool for most of the time.

But last time I talked with my gf she said she is not sure whether I am really loving her. Actually she thought I did but somehow other people (you know whom) told her, they think I seem much too cool, I am not doing romantic things, I am realistic and so on.

But I wanted to discuss this question separate from my current gf so I opened a new thread.