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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whats The Diff Between A Female Friend and The Friendzone

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I'm guessing theres a difference but i'm not shure how. Also theres a lot of crap on this site on how if your in the friend zone, you can kiss your chances goodbye. Anyones personal experence disprove this. I guess i'm viewed as the guy friend more often than not.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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a female friend is a friend that is a woman and in which you have no sexual attraction aka platonic
"friendzone" is where you dig a chick but SHE has no sexual feelings for you so she deemes you as a friend.
 

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A friend is a woman who actually likes you as a friend (and vice versa), and would stick with you through thick & thin. You treat her as one of your guy buddies (except without the d!ck).

"Friendzone" is just a lousy excuse for women to reject you, without hurting your feelings.
 

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Isn't it kinda gay to have friends that are girls but that you don't want to have sex with? Unless they're fat/ugly?
 

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SexinEar said:
Also theres a lot of crap on this site on how if your in the friend zone, you can kiss your chances goodbye.
Seriously dude, this is not crap, there is no way yo can get ouit of the friends zone, no 2 ways about it.

diplomatic_lies said:
A friend is a woman who actually likes you as a friend (and vice versa), and would stick with you through thick & thin. You treat her as one of your guy buddies (except without the d!ck).
Has anybody actually got a female friend that would stick by them through thick and thin?

T Money said:
Isn't it kinda gay to have friends that are girls but that you don't want to have sex with? Unless they're fat/ugly?
yes, absolutley.

There is absolutley no point in female friends, sex just gets in the way, ok, there may be some exceptions, a lifelong friend for example but for arguments sake, lets say you both get drunk and spend the night together, your no longer "just friends" she's now the girl you once had a thing with, and theres no undoing it. even if you do remain friends.

The other scenario could be your female friend is already in a relatioship, but that doesnt mean u dont want to bang them, yea sure, you might think your never gunna get the opportunity, because shes in a relationship. But what happens whens shes not in a relationship anymore, youll smile and then youll try and make a move at some point, and even if you dont youll probably a thought about it, or entertained the idea at some point.

Which basically means the relationship is doomed because youve thought about having sex with you friend. Even if they dont know youve been thinking about having sex with them, its still doomed because youve entertained the idea, and the chances are your going to entertain the idea again.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quote"Nothing is impossible"That means there is 2 ways or a way to get out of friend zone.
 

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Buck Rogers said:
which are?
Well im not sure,but there is a way because I learned there is one FACT in the world and thats death!But if you give me time,i will figure the way that makes sense.
 

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So, basically you are saying that you can get out of the friendzone, but your not sure how, but you must be abe to because at somepioint we are all going to die, so in the mantime your going to try and find out what works?
 

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Well im not sure,but there is a way because I learned there is one FACT in the world and thats death!But if you give me time,i will figure the way that makes sense.
Wait are you trying to pose as dreamxhenry??
wow you have no life, being a troll posing a troll, a new sosuave low
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SexinEar said:
I'm guessing theres a difference but i'm not shure how. Also theres a lot of crap on this site on how if your in the friend zone, you can kiss your chances goodbye. Anyones personal experence disprove this. I guess i'm viewed as the guy friend more often than not.
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