"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whats the deal?

trans_am17

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This girl told me to call her and its been about a week and I finally called her today but we only talked for a few minutes-she said she had to go and told me to call back in a few minutes, which I did. But she won't answer her phone- also I've called a few times and she stll won't answer. It should show up on her cell that I called but she won't even call me back. So why the heck did she tell me to call if shes not going to anwser?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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.illadelph

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she might not be interested. sometimes if u really hit it off with a girl, and don't call her until a week later, that feeling she has/or potentially had for u probably wore off. i dunno though, don't call her constantly. if she's not answering, no biggie, try to find her in person and approach her.
 

Porky

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guess what

this is the manager's daughter

SHE IS NOT INTERESTED.

the sooner you get that through your thicker-than-hell skull the sooner you can move on and be happy with somebody else.

jesus
 
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