"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats the deal?

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trans_am17

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This girl told me to call her and its been about a week and I finally called her today but we only talked for a few minutes-she said she had to go and told me to call back in a few minutes, which I did. But she won't answer her phone- also I've called a few times and she stll won't answer. It should show up on her cell that I called but she won't even call me back. So why the heck did she tell me to call if shes not going to anwser?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she might not be interested. sometimes if u really hit it off with a girl, and don't call her until a week later, that feeling she has/or potentially had for u probably wore off. i dunno though, don't call her constantly. if she's not answering, no biggie, try to find her in person and approach her.
 
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guess what

this is the manager's daughter

SHE IS NOT INTERESTED.

the sooner you get that through your thicker-than-hell skull the sooner you can move on and be happy with somebody else.

jesus
 
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