"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's the deal?

SamMalone

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I'm a good looking guy and a good dresser, but I never really get hit on by women or anything. But in the last four days I've got hit on at least once a day, and the strangest part is that it's when I was wearing crappy clothes!

First was when I went to the gym, just in shorts and a sleevless t-shirt, and I was talking to the girl at the desk (HB8, I have a hard time rating girls higher than 8...) and she said I was "cute".

Yesterday I went over a friends house after work for a party, but before we went out to eat. I just wore a plain white tshirt and athletic shorts. A girl approached me and said her and her friend (HB6s) wanted to "get to know me". Really wierd, never had that happen before.

Got drunk and didn't party. Next morning (a little hungover, hair was not gelled and a mess) went to the dollar store. We were driving in the parking lot (I'm still wearing the white shirt and athletic shorts) and two girls (HB8, HB7) waved to us and yelled "hi". Went in and got some stuff, came back out and I waved to them. They came over and started talking and I got the HB8s number.

There were other times too, but I only tried for that one number because I'm a p*****. Anyways, when I am walking around in polos shirts/button downs and jeans, I never have this happen. Are girls just afraid to approach well dressed guys or does it look like I'm trying to hard or what?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Austizzle

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You totally hit that one on the mark, those girls are just intimidated by your good looks/classy dressing charm...

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SamMalone

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lol. I just thought this was really strange because the day I was hungover and hadn't showered yet I got a girls number but the days I dress up and look good I don't even notice girls looking at me.
 

ImpatientFire

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So that's what is :D eh? I'm a good looking guy myself and I noticed the same thing. Chix hardly ever approach me when I'm dressed nice 'n fancy. I usually find out from someone else that they thought I was cute. Then when I don't put effort into my appearance I get hit on a lot :D . This just goes to show the inexperienced DJs that women hardly ever approach and u need to approah them or ur gonna be very lonely waiting for them to do so :woo:
 
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