"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's the deal?

SamMalone

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I'm a good looking guy and a good dresser, but I never really get hit on by women or anything. But in the last four days I've got hit on at least once a day, and the strangest part is that it's when I was wearing crappy clothes!

First was when I went to the gym, just in shorts and a sleevless t-shirt, and I was talking to the girl at the desk (HB8, I have a hard time rating girls higher than 8...) and she said I was "cute".

Yesterday I went over a friends house after work for a party, but before we went out to eat. I just wore a plain white tshirt and athletic shorts. A girl approached me and said her and her friend (HB6s) wanted to "get to know me". Really wierd, never had that happen before.

Got drunk and didn't party. Next morning (a little hungover, hair was not gelled and a mess) went to the dollar store. We were driving in the parking lot (I'm still wearing the white shirt and athletic shorts) and two girls (HB8, HB7) waved to us and yelled "hi". Went in and got some stuff, came back out and I waved to them. They came over and started talking and I got the HB8s number.

There were other times too, but I only tried for that one number because I'm a p*****. Anyways, when I am walking around in polos shirts/button downs and jeans, I never have this happen. Are girls just afraid to approach well dressed guys or does it look like I'm trying to hard or what?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Austizzle

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You totally hit that one on the mark, those girls are just intimidated by your good looks/classy dressing charm...

:D
 

SamMalone

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lol. I just thought this was really strange because the day I was hungover and hadn't showered yet I got a girls number but the days I dress up and look good I don't even notice girls looking at me.
 

ImpatientFire

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So that's what is :D eh? I'm a good looking guy myself and I noticed the same thing. Chix hardly ever approach me when I'm dressed nice 'n fancy. I usually find out from someone else that they thought I was cute. Then when I don't put effort into my appearance I get hit on a lot :D . This just goes to show the inexperienced DJs that women hardly ever approach and u need to approah them or ur gonna be very lonely waiting for them to do so :woo:
 
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