"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Whats the deal....

Blown5.0

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Been seeing a chick the past week. when we are together shes usually physical I.E. kissing, holding hands..ect. well tonight we were at a bar...and i could tell she wasn't acting normal...like she usually was. we get back to her place, and her roommate was gone, she always tells me she wished we could have some alone time, so tonight i thought we could at least mess around a little. well she still wasn't acting right...like something was bugging her. finally she like im tired...think im gonna go to sleep. i ask her what the deal was...she tells me she has cramps and she just started her period.

has any body else chick act like this when they are on there period. doesn't want to be touched...ect?!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would be VERY cautious of this one. There's more to it..i almost guarantee it
 

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so i was txting this chick today...told her that she was acting like something was on her mind last night...and she goes off saying...

"i cant stand when ppl ask me right away...whats going on..whats wrong..
whatcha thinking....
somethings different...etc"

she said it showed my age....


should i just shut up...and not pay any attention to her body language?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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