You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Hey, if you want a woman who looks like Zelda on "Pet Semetary" thats your private business. Me? A sexy woman with an elephant ass is ok with me, as long as she puts her time in the gym.GtarPlayr73 said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Actually, muscular men have big butts (protruding out the back, not the side), and in general women are attracted to that (it is a subconscious signal that the man is capable of strong thrusting in sex.)Joe The Homophobe said:
Well, if you think about it, you have inherited all your maleness from your father, and a very important part of maleness is the discrimination of attractiveness in women, and your father thought your mother was hot, so you would tend to think of women that have characteristics like your mother would be hot as well.joekerr31 said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
there you have it kids, go on and date your women with no butts but when it comes to marriage pick one with a decent butt to increase your son's chances of being healthy ;PMatureDJ said:
Not really SFW .....Drum&Bass said:
good call on that I gotta remember to put the NSW thanx.
why would you be afraid to get into a LTR with them ?? Once you start losing attraction for them all you have to do is leave.
Someone else gets it, finally. Curvy hips with an apple shaped but not fat bottom are feminine qualities. I've noticed as well that the women with so called "huge asses" a lot of times have the protruding out the back kind of huge asses, read masculine, muscular type. I posted once a girl with the perfect ass, I'll need to go back and find it. She had curvy hips with a not too large apple shaped ass.MatureDJ said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
no sir, its not a trend i honestly cant help it but be immensley attracted to a nice round ass wheter its white, brown or black...Mctwist4 said:
wow . Just checked her out on google . Thats what i call a perfectHB10 .Rollo Tomassi said:
Perfect photshopped 10Daddy The Pimp said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.