whats the deal @ clubs

[Someone Much cooler]

What is with girl in the club that be like "I'm not tryin to dance" or i'm only dancin wit my girls or what ever. I go to alot of clubs and alot of girls have this attitude. It can't be me, cause i watch other guys get the rejection, my boys get the rejection and so on. This one chick was like , "oh no, i don't dance wit guys," I was like "baby i don't want ya, i'm just tryin to dance and have fun, relax". Then this other girl was like "I only dance by myself, but you can watch if you want." I laughed at her and was like naw im real good on that! It also seems girls will sooner dance wit a girlfriend then they will with a guy. Maybe i just go to lame clubs or maybe there is something wrong...Idk if they don't wanna dace or socialize why not just stay home and drink that way no one bothers you?

 

[ChrizZ]

that's why you need game. Every chump asks a hot chick to dance.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

yeah yeah game blah blah. I don't think its that man, thats a cop out cause you ain't got no real answer. lol i feel ya man. I don't ask em to dance I just get behind em. I can dance, pretty good, so holdin a girl down ain't a problem. I'm not talkin about @ the bar, where yall can talk, i'm talkin about on da floor where she can't hear nuttin u tryin to say. I have no problem wit game, thats not what i'm asking-I swear there is like an anti-socialise phermone that secretes n a *****es head @ clubs. I mean even if guys are tryin to pick you up, so what, isn't that what humans do? i never minded girls tryin to pick me up....

 

[Rex Man]

You're doin ok if you DON'T ask them and just get behind them.

However, I think you may just be choosing the wrong girls. Don't get the self-consious (spelling?) looking girls or the girls that don't seem to be socializing outside of ther girlfriends. If they're holding their friends hand and making like a line, that's a huge flag. I think it boils down to your selection.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

I agree and know this. Man check out my previous threads, I get *****es. Thats not what i'm asking, i wanna know why. WHY WHY they do this? Is there any rational reason or thought behind it. These are the same types of girls that will talk to me @ school or in da street or where ever. So why in the club, a place made for danceing, don't they wanna have fun? All this is too hard, i just wanna dance, cut some rug and have a good time?! i don't know why peeps make a big deal outta it. ya know what F-it I'ma ask a girl why next time, ima be like hmmm do you feel unequal to the challenge?