"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's the best way to reduce Bodyfat?

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Hi all, just wanted to find out what's the best way of reducing bodyfat is. My bodyfat is around 18% and I started lifting weights again so hopefully that'll help it go down a bit. But I was wondering what kind of cardio was the most effective way since I really want to get rid the flab around my stomach. I know diet is important but wanted to know which one is better short intense cardio (sprints, hill sprints) or longer medium cardio (basketball, swimming, biking) is better for burning fat!? Also I wanted to ask if lifting heavy (6 rep max) and doing cardio would enable me to gain muscle and lose fat at the sametime.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Eat less fat, exercise more. Ride a bike.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Eat less fat, exercise more. Ride a bike.

Correction:
Eat the proper fats, eat a good deal of complex carbs(simple immdiately after workouts), and protein,work on proper nutrient timing, high intensity cardio and an intense weightlifting program.
 

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Run before breakfast, guy, do cardio then, eat like a banana then go for a 30 min run.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HIIT is a good option, if you are fit enough to attempt it (Sprint, stop, sprint, stop intervals). The majority of people aren't fit enough, hence why steady state long duration cardio is better. As long as you consume whey or glutamine before your cardio, and whey after, you will lose minimal muscle mass. This is also determined by your diet, when you are performing cardio and when you are weight training, as both require different fueling. I recommend cardio first thing in the morning after a protein only meal (ideally whey) or glutamine, then a carb+protein based meal half an hour after your whey shake.

Eg:

6:45am Wake
7:00 40g whey in water/10g L-Glutamine
7:15 30-40 minutes steady state cardio 65-70% max heart rate
8:00 40g whey in water
8:30 50g oats, 4 egg whites, 200ml skimmed milk

But yes, the best way to get rid of bodyfat is by a spot-on diet, a bit of cardio, and keep lifting heavy. I made the mistake of sticking to 5x5 on a 3 day split when I was cutting once, I crashed pretty hard as the intensity was too high. If you want you can split your bodyparts more evenly through the week, eg if you are currently doing a 3 day split, you could change to a 4 or even 5 day split. BUT don't believe that bullsh!t that high reps when cutting, low reps when bulking.
 

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Also I wanted to ask if lifting heavy (6 rep max) and doing cardio would enable me to gain muscle and lose fat at the sametime.
it will if the diet is there to back it up. (big clean eating)

7:00 40g whey in water/10g L-Glutamine
7:15 30-40 minutes steady state cardio 65-70% max heart rate
8:00 40g whey in water
overkill for a half hour walk don't you think mate? if a guy is sooo ectomorphic that he needs that sort of pre-post cardio protocol to avoid catabolism then his diet really must be sucky if he's got fat with that sort of metabolism. cleaning it up should do the job.
 
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