"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's the Best Way to Meet High Quality Women?

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I feel like with each failed relationship I've had in my 20s, I've become more cynical with regards to women, I realise that most women are completely unsuitable for a healthy long term relationship that leads to Marriage.

Meeting women, getting to know them, and ultimately getting married required time and opportunity. This is not the same as setting goals such as buying a house, getting education, etcetera, because these can be done anytime.

Unfortunately i never put in the effort to cultivate a strong social circle when i was in Highscool and University.

I'm in my mid 20's and it is getting harder to meet women, compounded by the fact that Covid-19 restrictions makes it difficult to meet new people and getting into organisations/events. I'm just wondering what people like me can do in these conditions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It’s a numbers game. You need maximum volume.

Mid 20s dude you are too young to worry about marriage. In today’s age, you have to be well established (30+) and ready financially to take on a wife. Women look at you differently in your 30s than in your 20s.

Continue meeting hves online, through social events, church, or activity meet ups. Use every available opportunity. Cast a wide net and try to sleep with all of them. The ones that want to be your girlfriend will make it clear they want to lock you down.

Also, be a consistent, system dater. Keep your approach the same for all women. That’s how you know each woman’s behavior is based on her own personality, not things you did.
 

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Mid 20s dude you are too young to worry about marriage. In today’s age, you have to be well established (30+) and ready financially to take on a wife. Women look at you differently in your 30s than in your 20s.
if we already met the right woman during our early 20's why wait? Overthinking things and waiting until we are financially and mentally ready will lead to nowhere. There will never be an absolutely perfect time. Either we do it now and work through it, or lose the opportunity.



Also, be a consistent, system dater. Keep your approach the same for all women. That’s how you know each woman’s behavior is based on her own personality, not things you did.
Great advice here, i will be taking this on board
 

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if we already met the right woman during our early 20's why wait? Overthinking things and waiting until we are financially and mentally ready will lead to nowhere. There will never be an absolutely perfect time. Either we do it now and work through it, or lose the opportunity.
If you meet the right woman early go for it!
 

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No perfect time but early 30s is good advice. Being up to 10 years older than your woman is a good thing as long as you ve used the time wisely. Over 10 not so much. At 35 you LL be in your 50s when your kid is at college. So knocking up a 22 YO when you're 32 is as good as it gets. Women don't age as well as men you LL want that 10 years
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I feel like with each failed relationship I've had in my 20s, I've become more cynical with regards to women, I realise that most women are completely unsuitable for a healthy long term relationship that leads to Marriage.

Meeting women, getting to know them, and ultimately getting married required time and opportunity. This is not the same as setting goals such as buying a house, getting education, etcetera, because these can be done anytime.

Unfortunately i never put in the effort to cultivate a strong social circle when i was in Highscool and University.

I'm in my mid 20's and it is getting harder to meet women, compounded by the fact that Covid-19 restrictions makes it difficult to meet new people and getting into organisations/events. I'm just wondering what people like me can do in these conditions?
Meditate. Go into nature. Double down on your purpose and path in life. Pursue wealth, health, lifestyle. Get deezd. Get the bag. If and when you arrive you will still want legacy.

As for women, most belong to the streets. Enjoy the decline. Adopt stoicism. Read meditations by Marcus A. The caliber is not worthy of cleaning your toilet let alone marriage and mother of your child. If you want the following you better source more and go where what you desire exists.
 

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I feel like with each failed relationship I've had in my 20s, I've become more cynical with regards to women, I realise that most women are completely unsuitable for a healthy long term relationship that leads to Marriage.

Meeting women, getting to know them, and ultimately getting married required time and opportunity. This is not the same as setting goals such as buying a house, getting education, etcetera, because these can be done anytime.

Unfortunately i never put in the effort to cultivate a strong social circle when i was in Highscool and University.

I'm in my mid 20's and it is getting harder to meet women, compounded by the fact that Covid-19 restrictions makes it difficult to meet new people and getting into organisations/events. I'm just wondering what people like me can do in these conditions?
what exact skill, hobby, or activity are you good at that women find intresting?
 

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Hi Zimbabwe,This damned pestilence has crippled all our social lives,you must forgive yourself for not having cultivated a meaningful social network,getting an education and finding a career is much more valuable than gallivanting around....You shouldn't be chasing marriage at your age,everyone needs to sow their wild Oats at some time,now is your time for enjoying life a bit...If you can't find Chicky Babes in Sydney which I have lost contact with,try trolling up to Newcastle,I can guarantee that you wont have to chase them,they will chase you...I was in the Workers Club up there for a Friday night social evening and my young Son was literally swamped by attractive Ladies...I am an Old Guy but if so inclined could have picked something up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi op. In my tewnties I met a few girls worth keeping around. Some in school, some trhough social circle, and some online. In my 30 I have only met one.
 

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Church (If you have one filled with women who follow christ), social circle, and social events i.e. music festivals, art festivals, food festivals etc

The more you outside doing what you like you're sure to run into a woman who is doing the same
 
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