What's the best way to handle this?

[base2ball2boy2]

There's a girl where I work at camp (easily a HB 8, she has enourmous boobs- real and quite firm. I can tell from the times when I "accidentally" brush into them hehehehe).

At first she wasn't my main goal. There's another girl there- but she turned out to be a b8tch. But anways, I had used some kino on her, and all of the other basic stuff- and since it didn't work out with the first girl, I've started to turn it up some.

Last week, we were at the beach. Two of the counselors started getting buckets of water and dumping it on the kids/other counselors. She got a bucket of water, too- and went straight for me. Of course, I wasn't looking at the time.

Sploosh And I had forgotten to bring a towel that day.

I decided the best course of action was to try and get her back (which I did).

So everything was fine and dandy in my DJ world until yesterday. We had field day, and there were leftover balloons from an H20 balloon toss. Once again, with my back turned (playing kickball with the kids)

Sploosh I tried to get her back, but she had used up the last few trying to get me (she hit me once when I had my back turned, but I dodged the last few).

So what I'm driving at here is- how should I handle this situation? I'm not stupid- this is a pretty obvious IOI b/c she goes for me and only me. I'm feeling that getting her back is getting old, and that I could take another, better route to be So Suave. Any ideas?

 

[Igetit!]

Just tell me this:How long have you known this girl?

Do you two talk to each other,and see each other often?

And how long has these games of "tag" been going on with you two?

 

[base2ball2boy2]

Just tell me this:How long have you known this girl?

Do you two talk to each other,and see each other often?

And how long has these games of "tag" been going on with you two?

1. Since the beginning of camp- about 5 weeks.
2. We see each other every weekday and talk only a bit.
3. The beach was the first incident. And that happened last week.

Thanks

 

[Igetit!]

Ok,well I hope you're sitting down for this.

To be honest with you,I think you're in the friendzone.

You've known this girl for five weeks.

FIVE WEEKS DUDE.

Why haven't you asked her out yet? When you meet a woman you have a interest for,you need to ask her out IMMEDIATELY. On the same day you met her,actually within the first few minutes of knowing her,you need to make your interest known.

This way,you present yourself as a possible romantic interest to her.

She wouldn't have any choice but to see you as a possible sexual interest,because that's the side of yourself you showed from the getgo.

If you don't do this,if you just laugh and joke and play around with her,she'll just see you as a "fun friend". I'm afraid you let too much time pass by.

And you think her splashing you with water is an IOI?

Man,I think I've heard it all now.

Judging from everything you've written,it seems like she just likes you as a friend. But hey,you can ask her out and see what happen...but I already know.

She'll become uncomfortable around you.

You two see each other every weekday,you talk,hang out at camp,etc.

And because of this,my guess is the thought of anything sexual with you has never even crossed her mind. Maybe at the beginning when she didn't know you,but now that she knows you,NOT YOUR SEXUAL SIDE,but the laughing,joking/playing around side,that's the part of you she knows and is comfortable with.

You're basically like a brother to her. And if you ask her out,you'll creep her out.

If she had given you an IOI as a response to you saying or doing something to let her know you're interest in her,then yeah,I'd say go for it.

But all she's doing is having fun with you.

I SINCERELY do hope I'm wrong about this,however,the only way to know for sure is simply to ask her out.

 

[DJDanny]

I might be a bit older now/wiser, but I have to completely disagree with Igetit!, this is the exact short of crap chicks did when i was in HS when they were interested. Except for the flirty ones but those were pretty obvious.

My advice, test the waters with some light kino, see her response.

 

[base2ball2boy2]

Wow...

I want to first thank everyone for helping me out. I've never gotten this kind of response before. But now-

Igetit!- I didn't put this in my first post, but it should change your mind about her seeing me in a "non-sexual" place.
We were playing steal the bacon (if you don't know what it is, look it up) in the gym sometime this week. I was the person calling out the numbers. I had just picked up the ball, and commented to myself:
Me: Hmmm...The ball's wet.
Her: Jizz.

I was knocked off my feet. I tried to respond, but I was cut off by her b8tch friend (the one I originally tried to go for). I just decided to drop it.

But anyways,
I'm going to try out that Mystery method. I already had work today (and saw her again) so I'm going to have to wait for another opportunity (but I do have a feeling that it will happen again).

But speaking of today- we went to amusement park. There happened to be a water playground as part of it- and my HB8 went right for it and got soaked. And did I mention we wear white t-shirts as part of our uniform? To say the least- her blue bra fit her fantastically. I was thinking I could bust her on that on Monday then do the Mystery method. But I'm just plain awful at making neg-hits. Any suggestions.

Thanks again.

 

[Igetit!]

Well,you won't get any arguement out of me man. The Mystery Method does work,however,I was always under the impression that it was to be used on women you don't know.

Nevertheless,sooner or later whether you use the Mystery Method or not,if you like this girl,you WILL HAVE TO ask her out. It's either that,or continue playing water games with her.

I assume she's attractive. If so,then surely you know that she probably has other guys interested in her as well. I bring this up because I don't want you to continue playing "tag" with her,while other guys are asking her out.
It'll be just a matter of time before one of these guys says or does the right thing,then she'll be dating him,but throwing water balloons at you.

Whatever you decide to do,do it quickly.

Each day that passes that you two see and talk to each other WITHOUT YOU MAKING YOUR INTERST KNOWN,puts you one step closer to the friendzone.