"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whats the best way to go about this?

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So i kinda of suck at this kind of stuff but anyway i just started talking to this girl that used to like me. In the past we've hooked up and have had sex, but nonetheless we stopped talking for about a month. We started talking again last friday when I saw her out and we decided to discuss why we had stopped talking in the first place. She had said that she felt that I didnt really talk to her much ( which is true to a certain extent). Anyway we exchanged numbers and she seemed really excited to be friends again and she insisted that I hit her up to chill. So monday rolls around and she intitates the text, we text 10 texts back and forth the conversation seems to go fine but eventually dies out. Anyway the following day since I was going to be going out by her that night I decided to hit her up to she what she was doing. Anyway she responds with the name of the bar followed by a period. Just a one word response with a period, which seeemed odd, but I tend to overthink these things. Anyway I said that I'd probably come by later on, to which she didnt reply to. I never made to bar because it turns out none of my friends wanted to go out. So this was the last I heard of her, anyway I still want to take her up on hanging out so I was thinking of texting her friday something along the lines of "Hey are you free today?". What do you guys make of this? What would be the best way to go about asking her to hangout?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah i would totally phone her a couple days in advance but since friday is tommorow I dont really see the point of calling her tm to ask her to hangout the next day. I also dont want to wait to long before hanging out with her so she doesnt lose interest. I see what you mean if I text her the day of if she might have plans already, but I just figured since she seemed so down to hangout it wouldnt be a big deal. So given that I dont want to wait to long it would be a bad move to hit her up early friday to ask her to hangout in the afternoon? Im thinking of just asking her to go to happy hour with me. something casual like "yoo happy hour today?"
 
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