"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's the best way to get a woman's number when she is in a rush?

lion051

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Hi guys, any recommendations, tips or suggestions on the best way to get a woman's phone number when she is in a rush and both of you are in a crowded busy place?

I don't have time to sit and have 2-5 minute conversations with these women to build decent rapport because they are in to do their business and then they're out. I only have time to crack a quick joke here and there and get some laughs. I can tell some are attracted but the place is to public and everyone can hear the conversation, and like i said they are in and out.

I don't want to be looking like I'm flirting with chick's all day while I'm on the job either. I work around a bunch of women, some of whom are pissy bitches who will try to get me in problems.

So any tips you guys have would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Poon King

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Its extremely easy to get a woman's number in almost any situation. Just don't over-think it and don't be a chicken sh!t about it.

Hand her your cell phone and tell her: "Put your number in. I want to get in touch with you when we both have more time." Give her a flirty wink.

Easy as pie.
 
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taiyuu_otoko

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Easy as pie.
Actually I was thinking of throwing a pie in her face, then she would NEED your number in order to sue you.

Seriously though why not just try a few different things, and do whatever works?
 

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"What's your number?"

Some women might throw a little objection.

You simply reply "I wanted your number to keep in touch with you but if you don't want to give it to me. I understand."
 

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Handing them your phone is becoming cliche but is still effective.

I ask "are you single?" and if they say yes I hand them a pen and napkin and tell them to write their name and number down. Also, if they ask, never give them your number (sans theirs), just laugh off their soft rejection and treat her like a friend from then on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lion051

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What about slipping them my number? Good idea or bad idea?
 

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Slow them down, if they rush it doesn't mean you should as well.

If they're running/walking away, simply tell them to come back and ignore their hurriedness...but you must do everything in a calm, confident way and MEAN it.

This doesn't always work but nothing does.
 

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Stop thinking your life will be dramatically improve if you actually get their number and they want to sleep with you. Whatever improvement there will be will be trivial.

Happiness needs to come from within, not by depending on women

So if you still do feel like approaching a ton of girls and asking for their numbers, you first absolutely have to accept being ok if all of these girls reject you
 
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