what's the best way to get a girl to forgive you?

[Jaun_Don]

What is the best way really?...just ignore her and don't contact her like she asks?, but what if she is good friends with your good friends?.

Yeah well I can't say sorry anymore as I have said it too much and she sends me texts that say "It's like you expect that you can do what you want and say a few sorry's and then it's all good

It's not, this is the last time, I don't want to hear from you anymore...last time for real"

Basically all I did was tell her that this is the time of year when we forgive and too wish her a Merry Xmas and tell her I have a present for her but she doesn't even want it.

I have admitted I was wrong, an idiot and I regret what happened and that she knows that I'm a good person because she spent a lot of time hanging out with me before all this BS drama happened.

I'm not going into details about what happened but I just don't know why she won't forgive me and she tells me to get over it???

 

[Optimus Prime]

I'm not trying to flame, but 416 posts...I should be asking this question and you giving the answer.



You already apologized, if she can't forgive, then forget her. Don't grovel. And what the hell did you do, we need context to really give good advice.

-Prime, out

 

[Boner da Stoner]

How about this...

say sorry when you MEAN it... like when you really ****ed up.
Stop ****ing up... that way you won't have to say sorry
Get a different girl or stop being a little *****...that way since you might nor really be ****ing up you don't have to be treated like you are

Remember this, GIRLS ENJOY HAVING A MAN SUPPLICATE, if you continue to be a little *****, she will take notice, and start to see how much MORE she can get from you. If she can keep getting what she wants, she will.

Now man up, and stop having things in your life to say sorry about.

 

[Jaun_Don]

It just sucks because she is really good friends and my good friends and she is just bieng a stubborn *****...she was all pissy and angry at me via text on Xmas Day.

Her loss...I have a girl (FWB) and this one just annoys me...you are right if she can't accept my apology then what good is she to me?.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Optimus Prime
I'm not trying to flame, but 416 posts...I should be asking this question and you giving the answer.



You already apologized, if she can't forgive, then forget her. Don't grovel. And what the hell did you do, we need context to really give good advice.

-Prime, out

This is the psycho 20 year old young girl that smashed the **** out of my CD's...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90755

I think it all went down because of this, she heard that I called her a ho but it wasn't me and when she got the information she assumed it was.

We were at war with each other for about a month because after I told her I sort of dig her she gave me the "I don't see you that way" speil and I told her I can't be friends with girls that I am attracted to and she went off the handle about that... so the next week I hooked up with someone else...in the end the reason she came over and yelled and screamed at me was because I was tired of her threatening me with violence over and over and I told her to go and **** herself.

She thinks that I don't care about her having an abortion, but why should I?...she didn't even tell me until when she was pissed at me.

During the yelling and screaming she threatened violence towards me again asked me over and over "who do i think I am"? and used the line "no...and you no why?...because you don't know me from a bar of soap.

She also posted up a harsh rhyme about me too.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91076

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Look, why are you saying sorry?

Don't say she can't forgive you, because she already does forgive you... TOO MUCH!! She told you that, you are the one failing the **** test(even though it really is a are you a man test) by ****ing up enough to feel the need to say sorry.

Don't try and next her, or your friends, and her friends will know, if she really is a drama girl and will tell people why you broke up with her... I could jump the gun and say "oh he broke up with me because he wouldn't do his chores"

I want to know WHAT you are saying sorry for, and telling you whether it is worth it to say sorry, so many times... if you are ****ing up over something simple, and you keep saying sorry. Than you don't mean it, you are saying yeah whatever, waiting for an answer, and than going back to the scene of the crime and shooting your gun off again... kinda like robbing a bank, being let off on good leave, going back and robbing the same bank, being let off after your sentence is done, than going back to rob the same bank, what would the law do for you than? What would the country say about you when you left the country?

 

[Boner da Stoner]

OH **** IT'S YOU!

I thought u learned your leasson you dumb ****!

LEAVE HER AND NEVER RETURN!

NOW YOUR SAYING SORRY?!?!?! YOU ARE RETARTED!!!

BAN THIS DIPHSIT MOD'S!

NEW people come on here and respond to the same problem with the same answers over and over again... they are not going to change! You just rephrase the subject and the question and situations, but it is the same girl the entire time...

I think this is a case of reverse one-itis, you are overcomplicating the situation, becomeing an AW, and now she is trying to get you out of her life, and you keep hopping back in by bring up old drama.

You are calling her psycho, and probably flaming her online... YES YOU ARE!!! But where she can;t see it, so you are still screwing up...

Stay away from her, until you are completely healed you must stop cutting yourself... or things are going to get complicated.

So please stop asking questions about THIS ONE GIRL, it's not helping you and only pissing us off. We are trying to help you out, but 450 posts of crap aren;t going to help you. Stop treating sosuave like your ****ing tampon, and move on.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Look, why are you saying sorry?

Don't say she can't forgive you, because she already does forgive you... TOO MUCH!! She told you that, you are the one failing the **** test(even though it really is a are you a man test) by ****ing up enough to feel the need to say sorry.

Don't try and next her, or your friends, and her friends will know, if she really is a drama girl and will tell people why you broke up with her... I could jump the gun and say "oh he broke up with me because he wouldn't do his chores"

I want to know WHAT you are saying sorry for, and telling you whether it is worth it to say sorry, so many times... if you are ****ing up over something simple, and you keep saying sorry. Than you don't mean it, you are saying yeah whatever, waiting for an answer, and than going back to the scene of the crime and shooting your gun off again... kinda like robbing a bank, being let off on good leave, going back and robbing the same bank, being let off after your sentence is done, than going back to rob the same bank, what would the law do for you than? What would the country say about you when you left the country?

I never slept with her...and how has she forgiven me?...she wants nothing to do with me.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
OH **** IT'S YOU!

I thought u learned your leasson you dumb ****!

LEAVE HER AND NEVER RETURN!

NOW YOUR SAYING SORRY?!?!?! YOU ARE RETARTED!!!

BAN THIS DIPHSIT MOD'S!

NEW people come on here and respond to the same problem with the same answers over and over again... they are not going to change! You just rephrase the subject and the question and situations, but it is the same girl the entire time...

I think this is a case of reverse one-itis, you are overcomplicating the situation, becomeing an AW, and now she is trying to get you out of her life, and you keep hopping back in by bring up old drama.

You are calling her psycho, and probably flaming her online... YES YOU ARE!!! But where she can;t see it, so you are still screwing up...

Stay away from her, until you are completely healed you must stop cutting yourself... or things are going to get complicated.

So please stop asking questions about THIS ONE GIRL, it's not helping you and only pissing us off. We are trying to help you out, but 450 posts of crap aren;t going to help you. Stop treating sosuave like your ****ing tampon, and move on.

Go and **** yourself you ****ing ******* you DON'T know **** you piece of ****...Merry ****ing Xmas ***** ass faggot.


Sorry for that outburst but you didn't need to be such a nasty dude...
and No I said sorry weeks ago and just texted her to wish her a Merry Xmas...you don't even read my posts properly so there is no point in you flapping your big trap...I am seeing someone and getting near that stage with another girl...it just pisses me off that this young one won't move on and forget.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

check this thread

ask the right question for the right answer friend...

sometimes you just need a good "kick in the ass" to learn.help a brother out

 

[Jaun_Don]

I think about her everyday and when I'm ****ing my FWB...she is in my head need I say more?.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

well YOU have obviously got ONE-ITIS... there is no doubt about that...

everybody else says ignore her and move on!... there is no doubt about that...

You have got to stop worrying about her, she ired your emotions, avoiding that which causes you the most pain is a gift my friend... How do you get somebody to accept a gift, and than have sex with me, is what your basically asking.

STOP!

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
I think about her everyday when I'm ****ing my FWB...she is in my head need I say more.

I don't know why, but hearing all the nasty stuff that you've said about her, and than hearing this... makes me smile, one of those big 4x heart at the top of the hill and wanting to give back all the presents Grinch who stole christmas smiles.

than the question...

What do you REALLY want from her?

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
well YOU have obviously got ONE-ITIS... there is no doubt about that...

everybody else says ignore her and move on!... there is no doubt about that...

You have got to stop worrying about her, she ired your emotions, avoiding that which causes you the most pain is a gift my friend... How do you get somebody to accept a gift, and than have sex with me, is what your basically asking.

STOP!

Wrong!!!...did you miss the part where it says that she knows a great deal of my close friends?...I don't want this...I don't want any enemies and I don't want to think about it or her...You DO NOT know what I think or go through as it is NOT you in this situation.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Did you miss the part where I said you keep adding new situations to the problem? Did you miss the part where I said "AVOID" the problem?

I didn't say next her and leave her in the dust, I didn't say let her forgive you in this way... I said leave her alone, than I said stop ****ing up(ie stalking her in your case), and now I am saying stop changing the subject and asking the same damned question!

Your right, I am not in your situation... and will never place myself into it, as you have. You could have stopped this months ago by listening to advice from your peers and people who don;t have their emotions clouded.

Tell your friends how you feel about her, they will break it down to less emotional terms to her... and then she will let her emotions fly to their faces, and they'll make it more logical to you. You will make your friends suffer, her and yourself, but in the end all of you will be the wiser, and happier. And most likely not together.

She has LJBF'd you, and now you have ONE-ITIS, you are being an AW, and won't LEARN. Sorry for any outbursts I may have had into believing this was a new problem back there... but it is not, you are just finally telling us what you believe is NOW more important... not looking bad for your friends...

If they understood the story they wouldn't feel bad if they knew the two of you had to keep your distance... just imagine her as a dude...

NOW describe your problem to us, we will break it down to an answer that we have already given you. What has been said was what was needed to be said... go back and read over all the old threads you made about the girl... think about what YOU said to us, and than read about what we said to you. read a few posts about one-itis and emotional males... and than come back and try and say we are wrong without testing first...

okay, go back and read first, that was a rant, go back and read some answers. You've got to move on with your life, stop thinking about her, stop worrying about her, stop worrying about your friends.... 60 years down the line, will you be teaching your kids about this? Or will you be in her nursing home still trying to get her to forgive you?

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Did you miss the part where I said you keep adding new situations to the problem? Did you miss the part where I said "AVOID" the problem?

I didn't say next her and leave her in the dust, I didn't say let her forgive you in this way... I said leave her alone, than I said stop ****ing up(ie stalking her in your case), and now I am saying stop changing the subject and asking the same damned question!

Your right, I am not in your situation... and will never place myself into it, as you have. You could have stopped this months ago by listening to advice from your peers and people who don;t have their emotions clouded.

Tell your friends how you feel about her, they will break it down to less emotional terms to her... and then she will let her emotions fly to their faces, and they'll make it more logical to you. You will make your friends suffer, her and yourself, but in the end all of you will be the wiser, and happier. And most likely not together.

She has LJBF'd you, and now you have ONE-ITIS, you are being an AW, and won't LEARN. Sorry for any outbursts I may have had into believing this was a new problem back there... but it is not, you are just finally telling us what you believe is NOW more important... not looking bad for your friends...

If they understood the story they wouldn't feel bad if they knew the two of you had to keep your distance... just imagine her as a dude...

NOW describe your problem to us, we will break it down to an answer that we have already given you. What has been said was what was needed to be said... go back and read over all the old threads you made about the girl... think about what YOU said to us, and than read about what we said to you. read a few posts about one-itis and emotional males... and than come back and try and say we are wrong without testing first...

okay, go back and read first, that was a rant, go back and read some answers. You've got to move on with your life, stop thinking about her, stop worrying about her, stop worrying about your friends.... 60 years down the line, will you be teaching your kids about this? Or will you be in her nursing home still trying to get her to forgive you?

makes perfect sense and again I have other girls in my life and my friends know what the deal is...I don't have one-itis because i don't like her that way anymore...it just confuses me is all.

YOU are so right...I need to stop thinking about this bull**** and not care anymore.

 

[Jaun_Don]

I forgot to mention something which I think could hold the key to her attitude...a girl that she had a fall out with over an idiot dude... is coming to stay with me next week and even though they recently 'made up' I have a feeling something else is in the works.

I haven't met this other girl yet, just spoken to her on the phone a lot and through texts and chat and she flirts believe me...I heard that they made up from this girl that is staying but I'm not even sure what the deal is...sorry to sound like a gossip queen *****

I just think that may have something to do with it.

 

[unknownDJ]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
What is the best way really?...just ignore her and don't contact her like she asks?, but what if she is good friends with your good friends?.

Yeah well I can't say sorry anymore as I have said it too much and she sends me texts that say "It's like you expect that you can do what you want and say a few sorry's and then it's all good

It's not, this is the last time, I don't want to hear from you anymore...last time for real"

Basically all I did was tell her that this is the time of year when we forgive and too wish her a Merry Xmas and tell her I have a present for her but she doesn't even want it.

I have admitted I was wrong, an idiot and I regret what happened and that she knows that I'm a good person because she spent a lot of time hanging out with me before all this BS drama happened.

I'm not going into details about what happened but I just don't know why she won't forgive me and she tells me to get over it???

buy her a box of birth control pills, give it to her personally and say to her "now we can have sex forever".

unknownDJ -

 

[Radiator]

I didn't read all the posts in this thread so it might already have been said. The sad truth is that best way to get her to forgive you is to make her feel bad about something she did to you.

So to get her to forgive you, you have to find something that she has to forgive you for. Make her feel bad about something, it takes the focus away from her being angry with you.

This is not a nice way to do it, but it works!

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

this forum is rediculous