"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's the best time you've had hanging out with a girl/woman?

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We always discuss the flakes, the mistakes, and the burns. It is now time to share your success by telling us stories/anecdotes of the best time(s) you've had with a female and how you made it happen. Maybe you went out with a girl who is was really funny, charismatic, playful, ****y and funny, sexually talented, a virgin, etc. It doesn't really matter what happened. Im genuinely interested in knowing what you guys have to say.

Be elaborate so that others can learn from your success and vice versa. Let's hear some good stories! :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Uhh once me and this girl convinced the rest of the party (of 22 year olds) that it'd be a great idea to go play marco polo at the playground across the street, then I told them we'd be right back and made out behind a tree before leaving. So what was pretty cool.

There was another time that I accidentally isolated a chick when I insisted that I saw some local celebrity walk by so we ran over to see if it was him. And then never returned to the party.
 

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I took my nieces out to icecream recently. That was fun and cool.
 

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bigjohnson said:
I took my nieces out to icecream recently. That was fun and cool.
Seriously?
 

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Talking two of my good lady friends into having a 3some.
Playing strip poker.
Going to Warped Tour/concert with a girl.
Going on a road trip with a girl.
Teaching an ex to play guitar.
Having sex outside or at times/places deemed as "taboo".
Going to the river/lake with b!tches.
Getting drunk/partying with any attractive females.
Going to a rave/dance with a girl.
Seeing a sporting event with a girl.
Trying a new food (Sushi etc..) with a girl.

And my personal favorite... when a girl can tolerate watching me play my video games. Even sexier when she gets in on it.

-Scars
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Robyn923b said:
Seriously?
Well it's hard to choose.

There was the in-effing-credible sex I had last night too, but I only get to see my little nieces rarely so I thought I'd go with that.
 

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Watching movies with girls that I'm dating, switching back and forth between cuddling and passionate sex.

It's the simple things in life that make all the difference :)
 
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