"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's the best sport?

Which sport is the best?

  • Baseball

    Votes: 2 6.7%
  • Basketball

    Votes: 2 6.7%
  • Hockey

    Votes: 4 13.3%
  • Tennis

    Votes: 3 10.0%
  • Golf

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Mixed Martial Arts

    Votes: 1 3.3%
  • Soccer (Football)

    Votes: 8 26.7%
  • American Football

    Votes: 8 26.7%
  • Boxing

    Votes: 1 3.3%
  • Racing

    Votes: 1 3.3%

  • Total voters
    30

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Silvertip

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In my opinion, hockey is the best. I enjoy American football, soccer, and baseball, but hockey stays with you long after you leave the ice. It's a lifestyle as well as a sport.
 

StrangeButTrue

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I love to watch Baseball, but I love MMA too. I don't know... I guess it has to be baseball because MMA fights only last 15 minutes... Too short for a relaxing afternoon of sports, or a tense two-hour battle for a playoff berth.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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amoka

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strams4ever said:
Tie for me between hockey, baseball, and soccer. I voted for soccer cause its gonna win!
A true politician
 

dannowillbookem

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bobby, i didn't want to tell you this, but soccer was invented thousands of years ago by european women waiting for their men to come back from the hunt.

-hank hill
 

Vulpine

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My vote is for anything hunting based/related:

Javelin, archery, marksmanship, track & field, fishing, hiking, X-country skiing, etc.
 
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