"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's the best (free) way to learn and implement ss?

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Originally posted by Sir Shags Alot:


On a side note I am very happy with my results. If you like I will tell you my progression and give some hints onto what is working and what is not for me, along with a few tutorials. I noticed conversations have been more powerful and less boring then when I used the AFC "yeah I like that to" or other topic ending comments. I become more descriptive on why I like something and put feelings into the person I am talking with. It is very easy to fake a similar hobbie\interest with a woman if you can descibe it well. You don't even have to like the same things but the way to descibe it will make all the difference. The results have been awsome, not only with women but also in my job and other aspects in my life.

-mack on!

I for one would be very interested to hear what you have to say.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any one else have suggestions... in particular, someone who is successful using SS, how did you get started implementing it?
 
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