"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whats She Thinking?

nismo-4

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NO DEAL!!!

She's setting you up so you can get knocked back down harder than the time she dumped you. I can future sight these situations and they are as accurate as they come.

No matter what anyone else tells you, DO NOT GO!!!:nono:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Update:
Don't worry I didnt go. lol
She texted me saying what time the movie was playing and I never responded. Then around 4pm she called me and I anawered(didnt recognize the number) and she was like can you do me a favor? I said what. And she asked if I could give her friend(this guy she knows I dont like) a ride to his gf's house. After hearing that I just hung up.
I mean how stupid does she have to be to ask me something like that??
She then texting me something like"you said you'd go :("
I just ignored her and ended up drinking and hanging out with some friends. I left my phone to charge for a few hours in my room. Came to get my phone later that night to see she texted me"hey" and called at one point. Also she ended up staying at the dorms. lol
Guess me not going ruined her night? lmao
 
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