"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's my next move?

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whichonespink

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I went out with a girl last week to dinner, it was fun and when we were parting ways she said "we have to do this again sometime." Well, I havent called or contacted her in over a week. what should I do, should i call her to meet again? or would a txt be ok?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd call and make it short and sweet.
You: "Hey, how are ya?"
Her: "fine" "good" whatever.
You: "How about dinner Thursday?"

This part ain't rocket surgery.
IMHO, texting is lame. It's too easy to ignore and it has no intimacy.
 
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Mate, Call her or txt her, which either you can be bothered to do. She's probabily been waiting for you to get in contact with her. So just do it now.
 
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smooth guy

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Why would you waste time and write a text to arrange a date? Are you afraid of her voice or something?

If you wanna **** sooner or later you gotta be comfortable first with regular communication. If you aren't comfortable talking to somebody how are you gonna be comfortable with your sexuality later on.

Dont over analyze this DJ stuff too much. You wanna a arrange a date fine, pick up the phone and call her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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