"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's my next move with this girl? Post second date, still no kiss-close

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First date was pool, she seemed to be really into me, for some reason I hadn't kiss-close on that date

Second date, we went for drinks. Here's the kicker. Her eye contact showed interest, but the kino said otherwise. I tried three times in about 1.5h to put my hand on her forearm, and all three times she gently pushed away. Looking bad, right?

Whatever, I decided to invite her over to my place to watch a movie, to which she politely declined, saying she had to work early on her PhD proposal tomorrow, to which she justified herself by showing me an email her teacher had sent her.

I walked her to the nearest bus stop that she was taking, and I was really phased out by how badly it all went so I gave her a goodbye hug, no attempt at kissing. Here's the other kicked. As I was walking back, she was just starting at me, looking a mix of disappointed and shocked.

So on one hand, she didn't react too well on my kino, but on the other hand, her eyes said otherwise.

Now I have three options:

1) Get rid of the number, and wait to see if she contacts me
2) Text her in about 5 days to invite her over for a movie
3) Wait a full two weeks and act like said dates never happened, and try to re-initiate a third date and work on my frame better

Opinions?

P.S. She is LTR material, not interested in ONS - and by LTR material I mean I would be willing to date her casually (no exclusivity for now), now just use her for sex.
 

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#2. If that fails, do #3. If that fails, do #1.

EDIT: You'd be the best judge of this, but I have a feeling 2 or 3 days would be better, instead of 5.
 
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