"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ftballfreak880

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This weekend I was down the shore and a couple weeks ago when I was down there, I saw this gorgeous hostess at this restaurant and she seemed about my age(16). So this time, I went up to her as I was leaving and said "Hey, I know this is kind of awkard but I couldn't noticing how attractive you are so i wanted to come say hey?"...and then I just asked her a couple questions and then I asked for her number and she said how bout you give me yours(but I could tell she wasn't gunna call and she didn't)....so the whole thing was kind of rushed and awkard and I could tell she didn't really know how to respond, but I would still say I have a chance, assuming I go back there to talk to her. So next weekend I'll be back down the shore, so what should I say to her this time?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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dont fool yourself no you dont. Now im not saying you cant score with a hot girl, but first impressions mean so much and her impression of you obviously wasnt a good one, so dont waste your time...
 

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see the article "How to Ask Out Women in Service Jobs" on the homepage (www.sosuave.com)
i think you should go down again, if for nothing else than just the experience of the experiment.
 

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That kinda persistance will get you nowhere, do yourself a favor and stay away. That way this girl isn't gonna end up on a petistal and you won't run the risk of having to deal with someone who thinks you're a stalk, sucks I know but going back??? I don't think it's the right move.
 

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She said no once. Sh'ell do it again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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