What's more important for happiness? Great amount of money or great dating life?

[bigdave17]

I've been on the flipside of both when it comes to money. I come from a 3rd world country and my parents didn't have much when I was growing up here. At 24, i bought a bigger house than what my dad could afford when he was 45. I would definitely say money has made me much happier. I love being able to go wherever I want, eat whatever I want, zero stress or worries about financing or budgeting. Anything I want, I always say yes. It's pretty awesome


I've only been on 1 side of the dating world - being perma single. I can't imagine what it would be like to have multiple attractive women badly wanting to be with me. I have women who approach me all the time now but they're always 5s and 6s or they're hot but single moms or hot but in their 30s. I'm talking about having quality women wanting to be with me (mid to late 20s, decent job, no kids, etc...). I can't imagine what that would be like


What do you guys think? Would you rather be broke but with the perfect GF or be rich with no dating life like me?

 

[sazc]

Holy sh1t man, another thread? Go OUTSIDE!

 

[bigdave17]

Holy sh1t man, another thread? Go OUTSIDE!

I'm recovering from the booze so I'm exhausted, just lying on my bed and relaxing. I'm probably gonna go workout for 3 hours to burn off the excess calories from last night. I drank/ate soooooooooo much

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Both help, fairly equally.

Money enables an existence you want to live, regardless. But being rich and lonely is not an existence to aspire to.

You shouldn't be aiming for one or the other. You should be aspiring to both.

 

[HankHill]

I have women who approach me all the time now but they're always 5s and 6s or they're hot but single moms or hot but in their 30s.

I can assure you that your d!ck won't fall off if you dated them (unless they're crackheads and prostitutes).
You need to start dating them ASAP if you want higher class women - ever hear the saying that women gravitate towards those that already have women? Just grow a pair and do it. Unless you're BS'ing us and you're not even getting hit on by 'these lowly women' as you describe them.

Heck think of it as charity to these women, whatever makes you take action.

I'm talking about having quality women wanting to be with me (mid to late 20s, decent job, no kids, etc...). I can't imagine what that would be like

And you won't find out if you don't change something. Repeating same patterns and expecting difference results? At 29 if this hasn't happened for you yet what makes you think these hot 20 yo virgins are going to line up outside your 'mansion of a house' asking for Dave Hefner now?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Neither. Doing things you enjoy doing makes you happy.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I can assure you that your d!ck won't fall off if you dated them (unless they're crackheads and prostitutes).
You need to start dating them ASAP if you want higher class women - ever hear the saying that women gravitate towards those that already have women? Just grow a pair and do it. Unless you're BS'ing us and you're not even getting hit on by 'these lowly women' as you describe them.

Heck think of it as charity to these women, whatever makes you take action.



And you won't find out if you don't change something. Repeating same patterns and expecting difference results? At 29 if this hasn't happened for you yet what makes you think these hot 20 yo virgins are going to line up outside your 'mansion of a house' asking for Dave Hefner now?

He already said his FINE AS HELL sister whose a 9 has 3 kids. How in the hell could he turn that down for dating if that's his option? The lady just needs to have a good time and be fvcked well.

 

[Murk]

Happiness can come in all forms. your ancestors in Pakistan were happy without any material possessions, earned a fraction of what you earn but not posting a million threads on bull**** and over eating while crying into a bowl of cake like you.

 

[Trump]

Would you rather be broke but with the perfect GF or be rich with no dating life like me?

Who says you are rich?

 

[Tilex]

The definition of happiness is different for each individual.
Some people find happiness playing video games all day, and some people just enjoy having sex all day. These are just examples.
I knew a guy in high school that just wanted to eat hamburgers all day.

 

[bigdave17]

Happiness can come in all forms. your ancestors in Pakistan were happy without any material possessions, earned a fraction of what you earn but not posting a million threads on bull**** and over eating while crying into a bowl of cake like you.

Pakistan?


you might as well call me an Indian. I'm Armenian, we're 100% Christian and are very similar culturally to Greece or Italy

 

[devilkingx2]

whichever you have less of is what will bring you happiness if you get more of it.

if you have zero money and zero women, then you'll need both

if you have abundant money and numerous women, then you need something else. (more free time? a better career? more hobbies? more rest and relaxation?)

 

[051AV]

Money never buys happiness you just need enough to live a comfortable life where your not living paycheck to paycheck stressing you out. I spent half a decade really miserable I was suffering from job burn out in my decade long career in the gov't. Changed careers, living a healthier life, not dating any women right now its not worth the bother, I'm living life the way I want it, I have control of what I do.

 

[jacketrunner]

I've been on the flipside of both when it comes to money. I come from a 3rd world country and my parents didn't have much when I was growing up here. At 24, i bought a bigger house than what my dad could afford when he was 45. I would definitely say money has made me much happier. I love being able to go wherever I want, eat whatever I want, zero stress or worries about financing or budgeting. Anything I want, I always say yes. It's pretty awesome


I've only been on 1 side of the dating world - being perma single. I can't imagine what it would be like to have multiple attractive women badly wanting to be with me. I have women who approach me all the time now but they're always 5s and 6s or they're hot but single moms or hot but in their 30s. I'm talking about having quality women wanting to be with me (mid to late 20s, decent job, no kids, etc...). I can't imagine what that would be like


What do you guys think? Would you rather be broke but with the perfect GF or be rich with no dating life like me?

Chase cash over ass. Well it’s important to have money so that you have freedom which girls are attracted to.

 

[R.U.G.]

BigDave, no disrespect, but if your personality on SS is anything like your personality IRL, a Greek, Italian or Armenian woman would eat you up alive. Traditionally, they like very masculine men, not men who b!tch, moan and complain all the time. Again, no disrespect, just calling it like I see it.