"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When you see things for what they really are - that most attractive women, and even young women that aren't attractive, are full of crap, and that "love" and companionship is a Hollywood fabricated myth...and you see first-hand how women really are...what makes them operate...what they like...and you realize there is no such thing as someone "liking" you but rather liking a guy's looks/money/connections/body/circle of friends/etc., what's left?

Is getting laid really that great that it's worth it? I used to fantasize about sex all the time like it was this mystical thing. I still haven't had it, but I don't even crave it anymore. Most women don't excite me, even the prospect of having sex with them, while it interests me (since I'm a man with hormones) it doesn't excite me...not to mention that I have a designated sex life in my sleep most nights anyway and get better women and the exact kind of action I want from them and it feels like the real thing.

I see no need for a girlfriend unless there's common lifestyles along with attraction. I still hesitate to use the love word anymore...but I believe that I could connect with a certain type, rare type of woman, that is more introverted in nature. There are also rare, as in maybe 1 percent, of women that attract me to a point where regardless of their personality, I would love to sleep with them and/or date them. Other than that, and I don't even think about that stuff nearly as much as I used to, I don't see the point.

At the same time, that doesn't mean I'm sitting back and doing nothing to improve my life. But I'm improving for myself. I want muscles anyway.

I just don't see the point in playing the game when it's rigged to begin with and custom made for a small percentage of born naturals (whether it be good genetics, great face, money, power, etc.)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you realize there is no such thing as someone "liking" you but rather liking a guy's looks/money/connections/body/circle of friends/etc., what's left?
What's left ? you. Of couse having looks money and anything you have mention will help with your connection with girls, but if I were to give you all of that in a instant, you wouldn't be much successful ? WhySimply because you think what to much about the physical or material aspect of things. Interaction with girls is more that just a mathematical equation.

Is getting laid really that great that it's worth it? I used to fantasize about sex all the time like it was this mystical thing. I still haven't had it, but I don't even crave it anymore. Most women don't excite me, even the prospect of having sex with them, while it interests me (since I'm a man with hormones) it doesn't excite me...not to mention that I have a designated sex life in my sleep most nights anyway and get better women and the exact kind of action I want from them and it feels like the real thing.
Getting laid is awesome but there again (and I'm not blaming you, I'm just pointing out) you are only thinking about the physical aspect of sex. Sex is way more than just a d!ck getting in and out of a puzzy. There's foreplay, kissing, rubbing and the feeling of satisfaction that after all those meeting, you can finally see what's under that mini-skirt !

And how can you say that it feels like the real thing if you haven't got it yet ?

I just don't see the point in playing the game when it's rigged to begin with and custom made for a small percentage of born naturals (whether it be good genetics, great face, money, power, etc.)
The game was made for people like me and you, it was not for the naturals. I bet you didn't think about that. The reason is pretty simple: A natural doesn't read, train, thinks like a pua, he just lives and learn along the way. Since we couldn't learn with what life as giving us as experience with girls, we are learning techniques, negs, IOI and all that stuff so that once we get good at it, we can start living, we can stop worries about some b!tch feeling and about what does she means by this and that. WE CAN START LIVING because we know how to get people to "love us" and have great connections. we can start not caring about rejection and all that.

The purpose of the game is to be able to win: Get a number, get a kiss close, f-close, girlfriends, multiple plates. If you don't play by the rules, you won't get any play and someone that never plays, never wins.

So play on, it's suppose to be fun man, don't let girls play with your character.
Girls, they all come and go, but you will be here until the end.
 

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I've done everything but sex and find the foreplay highly overrated. In fact, and I'm not even a romantic guy, I found the making out, cuddling better than the foreplay. (And when I say in dreams it feels like the real thing...of course I don't know what sex feels like, but I know what everything else feels like.)
 

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You can't preach on something you never had.
 

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You can't preach on something you never had.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thegator39 said:
I just don't see the point in playing the game when it's rigged to begin with and custom made for a small percentage of born naturals (whether it be good genetics, great face, money, power, etc.)
its not
 

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If it were up to me, I'd be chemically castrated and have zero interest in women whatsoever. Looking at a woman would be akin to looking at a man...that is, nothing comes from it.
 

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thegator39 said:
not to mention that I have a designated sex life in my sleep most nights anyway and get better women and the exact kind of action I want from them and it feels like the real thing.
This is perhaps the most ridiculous thing I've ever read on this board, and that's saying something.

Is getting laid worth it? Yes. Especially since it isn't even all that difficult once you actually have some game and know how to talk to girls and enjoy yourself.
 
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