"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whats In Your Dj Toolkit?

COD

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well everyone should have a basic pickup toolkit for a variety of situations. I am in no means saying rely strictly on props, but rather to have them just in case you need 'em. So lets call this ummmm "PROPS TO KEEP YOU ON TOP"

1) CONDOMS-do I really need to explain this one. With so many women and I know bare back feels better, but STD's are on this rise once again. Those commercials don't reveal the sores STDS give ya, sure a pill might help but why not just avoid them altogether. No glove no love......nuff said. kEEP EM HIDDEN.........you dont want your main squeeze fidning them and say what are these for.

2) BREATH FRESHNER-perfect for first dates, first kisses, hiding any familiar odors from oral, etc.....mints, sprays, mini scopes.....its all good.

3) COLOGNE-where it's true no scientific evidence supports phermones phenominon certain types do make a few women swoon. Don't slather it on, merely a quick lil spray and for Gosh sake stop spraying your crotch with it.......women hate this.

4) BRUSH-its windy or maybe you have JBF hair (thats just been F--ked) a quick comb/brush in your car is a quick fix.

5) SUNGLASSES-the quickest way to DHV and look cool doing it. Whether you are cruising in your car or at a ball game/concert/beach.........sporting cool shades is like getting an injection makeover!!!!

6) ACCESSORIES-fashion has always rocked and chics DO notice the little extras. An expensive looking watch, a cool neclace, maybe even some glow stuff. ANything that fits neatly into your glove compartment will work.

7) CELL PHONE-now this is a give in. The type of phone U own speaks volumes about your personality. It depicts social proof to your friends (pictures/video/etc), great for capturing in the moment events, getting a girls digits, getting lost, IM's, and even getting instant advice, lines, etc.

8) MUSIC-having a cool slow romantic CD or mp3 when romance is in the air makes you appear all too smooth and sets the tone for the evening. She will associate you with those tunes and costs next to nothing to design.

9) GUM-yup you heard me........sharring a mint/stick of gum not only freshens her breath but is a psychological ploy to gain instant rapport.

10) FAKE BANK RECEIPT-well I laughed when I heard this one from about a decade ago..........til I tried it. I left "the slip" in my car on the dash while I went in and paid for my gas. She actually said "you make that kinda money"....... the night went a lot smoother and instantly told me she was a gold digger.



These are just some basics, they are compact and easy enough to put into your DJ TOOLKIT.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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COD said:
10) FAKE BANK RECEIPT-well I laughed when I heard this one from about a decade ago..........til I tried it. I left "the slip" in my car on the dash while I went in and paid for my gas. She actually said "you make that kinda money"....... the night went a lot smoother and instantly told me she was a gold digger.


Haha gotta try that. Weed out those girls and use them for sex, if even
 

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Good Thread Idea.

Since I'm in college and I always have my backpack with me, I am able to carry an assortment of items with me. This allows me to stay out whenever I want, but also be prepared so that wherever I do sleep will be comfortable.

I carry deodorant, a $5 dollar tooth brush, and hair styling products, which includes a comb/brush as well as gel type stuff. I always have this stuff with me.

If I expect to stay out for the night before I leave home, I will throw in an extra shirt, a razor, and an extra pair of shoes depending on what's planned.

A pair of shades, condoms, and a cell phone are items that any DJ must have, but the stuff above gives me a bit more freedom to stay out and maintain a clean look.

Notice I did not put toothpaste, shaving cream, shampoo, toilet paper, or that stuff you use for jock-itch.

Even when I graduate I will keep a bag for stuff like this in my trunk or wherever just because the feeling of being prepared to do anything at anytime is exciting.
 

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Aristotle said:
Good Thread Idea.

Since I'm in college and I always have my backpack with me, I am able to carry an assortment of items with me. This allows me to stay out whenever I want, but also be prepared so that wherever I do sleep will be comfortable.

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ive done the same thing for years. i have an old back pack with a change of clothes and all of the products i use but in the travel sizes. it stays in my trunk all the time and every two months if i havnt wore the clothes i take em out and wash them. i also keep a pillow and a sleeping bag with me. its come in handy the most. it definitely beats using a rolled up t shirt on the floor. (from experience)
 

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11) MOIST WIPES-if you cant shower, you will want to do the next best thing if pressed for time. Wipe the vital areas if your dating multiple women simultaneously...........as in back to back dates or returning home to #1 girl.

Remember a tactic known is your cover blown!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deck of cards. If you know the simplest card trick, it can be a great gambit
 

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COD said:
10) FAKE BANK RECEIPT-well I laughed when I heard this one from about a decade ago..........til I tried it. I left "the slip" in my car on the dash while I went in and paid for my gas. She actually said "you make that kinda money"....... the night went a lot smoother and instantly told me she was a gold digger.
I wouldn't use this unless I knew she was a golddigger otherwise it would be basically you lying to her. Good tactic though!
 

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How bout these in your car:
1. a girlie handkerchief
2. a lipstick somewhere in the back seat

In your house:
1. Girlie towels
2. Girlie perfumes
3. Again, few lipsticks somewhere in the bedroom
4. A single high heeled shoe at the front door.
 
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