"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fly By Night

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I'm kinda bored, can't really do much for valentine's day except talk to random people trying to build rapport. My biggest problem seems to be choosing the right words to get past the "random stranger trying to talk to her" and into the "interesting guy she feels comfortable with" zone. So I was just curious...

How many plates are you guys spinning? And how you met them? Where? What you say?

One of my plates (not exactly), I met at the gym. We talked for a good 5 minutes about her background and what workouts she likes doing. I don't like calling her a plate because we don't really see each other outside of the gym and all she really does is just wave hi to me, but I will escalate with her when I get the chance. Another was a friend of one of my guys, we both act kinda goofy and we started chatting it up to a point that we went out to eat together a couple times.

But, I want to see how you guys do it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Plate- girl that you have mutual sexual contact with.

Right now I have 5. All from this year. I met them at random places. Event, subway, gym, at her job, party. All times I approached and gave them good conversation. I then give them my number and tell them when to contact me. After I figure out their not crazy I then invite them to the crib. A.J. doesn't do dates!

It's that easy to get girls. Just put your bid in and let them do the rest of the work.
 

McMotherLover

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You can meet girls anywhere. Maybe you're uncomfortable around them so what I would suggest is to try and pick up ugly girls you won't be nervous around at first. Kinda build yourself up.... go from picking up 4s and 5s to 6s and 7s and once you know it you'll be getting with 8s and 9s. Just gradually move up, ya know?
 
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