what's her deal?

[blackhatter]

Long story short, I've started talking to this girl I used to hook up with 2 or 3 years ago.

Back then she was crazy about me, but I wasn't so much about her. I ended up hooking up with her friend, she went ape **** on me and pretty much stopped talking to me.

Anyways I get a text earlier this week saying "Hey you! Let me know if you ever want to chill and smoke I'll be around this week!"

So I text her tonight, we meet up. We smoke and things are going well. I've got her laughing almost the entire time.

She brings up the past a little bit and I say, "Look babe, things have changed a little bit since then, I'm not the same dumb kid." At this point were pretty close to each other so I try to pull her towards me to make the move and she just laughs.

Immediately after she starts asking me about my ex, and she tells me how she's trying to work things out with her ex (he cheated on her).

At this point I'm feeling dumb for even going in for the move, but wondering why she wanted to hang out?

Anyways, 15min later I tell her I've gotta get some sleep and bounce. On the way out she tells me to give her a call later this week so we can chill again.

So does this chick want it or is she just seeking some rebound company? I feel like I could've made a 2nd attempt, but I don't label myself as desperate for pvssy.

I feel pretty confident she wants it, as she used to be crazy about me, but maybe she's feeling a little hesitant?

 

[blackhatter]

???

 

[blackhatter]

So I waited a day or two and texted her tonight.

Joked around for a few minutes then said, hey you want to chill later tonight?

She replies back "Yeah def! I'll call you when I'm done work!"

If she comes over to my place tonight, I'm definitely making the move early on. She wouldn't come her to chill for the 2nd time in 3 days unless she wanted to hookup right?

 

[sodbuster]

Yes she would/could hang with you with no expectations. 1 She may be get ting revenge,2 She remembers the past and doesn't want to revisit it,3 She may be using you for a smoking buddy,4 God only knows what other reasons a woman might have

 

[SharinganUser]

sounds like she is using you to make her ex jealous.

 

[Sir_Turtle]

Agreed, your being used for validation, rebound company, and probably to make her ex jealous.

She probably won't hook up with you unless you can emotionally overwhelm/seduce her in some way.... which isn't likely.

If she has hot friends I'd suggest using her to get to them, she's gonna be more trouble than its worth even if you do get some..