whats good to say when you im a girl

[cablecow15]

i talk with girls on im alot i talk alot in the feild to but the computer is a big part of my game so i was wondering if someone has a good im topic i usually talk about sex or get them to ask me questions back and forth i start out normal like your favrite band then i work up to sex stuff it usually gets them horny thats all ive got

 

[shydude]

Wdf??

 

[shydude]

I didnt get a word u just said@@

 

[adpreston1988]

I don't know what it is, but girls on aim hardly ever initiate conversations with me. I always im them first and then they really get into it, but they just never start it. However, whenever they leave they use lots of exclamation points in their, "good nights" and "cya", etc. so I don't think it's because they have no interest in talking to me. I heard someone advise not initiating any conversations, but then I only get like 1-2 girls to im me first instead of talking to like 5-10 like I normally do. I know it'll be better for them to im me first because it shows that they want to chat, but it's really lame to just wait around on the computer and wait for them to im me when the majority of them never do. Any better advice than just not im them? I know I can call them and talk to them in school, but I'm looking for advice in instant messaging them.

 

[JesterX]

dude dont take notice of how many exclamation points and **** they put on there byes it probably means nothing. you know how chicks are they want to seem friendly they just do that kind of stuff like drawing love hearts in there writing **** like that dont take notice of it. instead worry about there actions not there words.

 

[The Real Ice Man]

Where's the challenge in/what's so interesting about a guy who sits on AIM all night and waits for girls to talk to him?

 

[j8snx1]

If the computer is your main source of sarging/macking/whatever, then I think you should get off your ass and do something more physical/action-oriented stuff!

Besides, AIM is pretty boring, unless you're talking with your best friends or girlfriend(s).

 

[adit]

I used to talk a lot on MSN before,but I changed my ways and started talking in person.It's really a lot better.

However,when you're talking on IM,its better you dont talk for a very long time (talking on IM can go on for hours,because its free unlike a phone).Just talk for a while,for example.

YOU: Hey girl what are you doing?
GIRL: Oh I'm just updating my myspace profile up.
YOU: Oh thats cool.I updated mine a while ago too.Myspace really rocks yeah.
GIRL: Yeah it definitely does.Internet can get you anything these days.
YOU: Well,I'm kinda bored of the internet right now.Tell you what,lets just meet up in XY coffee shop and hang out.
GIRL: I dont know if I can..My dad's at home you know.
YOU: I'm going down there to get a coffee ok?I'll be seeing you there,and if you dont show up I'm taking it as a personal insult.LoL.

YOU is offline.

Well,just do stuff like that.If she doesn't show up it means she isn't interested in you,and you have to up your game.If she does show up,its good.Girls do resist the first time you ask them to hang out with you,you've just gotta dive in and get them to come with you.

Dont waste a lot of time on IM,everyone's nice there as a friend only.Go out and smell the flowers (and the perfumes the ladies are wearing lol).

Cheers!

 

[08aisaac]

I dated online for a while. Waste of ****ing time. Go for girls at your school, or in your town. And talk to them on the phone, not on AIM.
Plus, on the phone, you can get some humor in. Like, on AIM girls always say 'lol' or 'lmao'. They just say that to fill in the blank spots.
So be like:
Me: I gtg, and get offline, but you can call me.
Her: Alright. Now?
Me: yeah, my number is ***-****.
Her: kk
Me: I'm expecting a call from you. Bye.
Signs off.

That's all it takes. They will call, because girls do what they're told. And because girls don't like to piss people off. I've noticed most girls top priority is to make sure no one's mad at them. That's why they don't tell you they don't like you. If they did that, you might get mad.

So that's usually what I do.