"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey lads,

I was with a girl who i fancied for a long time
(2 years!) last thursday, In the last month or 2 i upped the flirting etc last week i bascially said 2 her, u know we should have been with eachother, 2 which she agreed but said she was confused. She told me she cares about me but shes confused because i sprung that comment 2 her. So i went 2 the house 2 have a chat wit her, and when i was leaving i said fu<k it and kissed her for a few mins, to which she didnt refuse. It was her birthdat Yesterday and i asked her did she wanna call down and watch a movie last nite with my house mates who she knows. We have exams at the moment and she declined because shes was takin notes down last nite,so i said thats fine, ill talk 2u later.

Today i havent heard anything from her, i havent called her either. Will i give her space because shes confused with the whole thing,if shes interested she'll let me know,or is this natural. Im friends with her bro, but his very over protective of her, but i dont care not anymore, i like her,she knows that. And im sure she likes me 2.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So far, so good. Now it's time for a little sexual tension. Do NOT call her, do NOT make any further contact with her until she does so with you.
 
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Hey guys,

Just an update on this situation. I was chatting 2 her on MSN last tues, were she basically said "I dont want a relationship at the moment". I agreed with her because i havent much time either at the moment,as im in my final year of college,and shes going on work experience for 9 months. i told her i wanted 2 meet up with her after the exams,2 which she agreed. I didnt hear from her for a few days, but we had a party last night and i invited her thurs but no reply and she didnt show up. She sent me a txt b4 my exam yesterday wishing me well and apologised for ignoring me "i was all over the place with study" and wondered how i was keeping. I sent her a quick message saying, i did grand and im looking forward 2 going out and celebrating with the lads. Now i havent heard from her back and 2b honest its beginning 2 pi$$ me off when i know it shouldnt. Ive known her for 2 years and this not talking stuff is ridiculous. Lol 2 make matters worse i looked at my phone this morning and it seems i tried ringing her at 2am. O dear

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