“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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G'day boys I try to refrain from asking questions like this, but this has really got me perplexed.

I asked a girl to the formal (like prom in australia) and she was really quite keen to go with me. But its strange look at these before's and after's.

Before i asked her to the formal:
- She took every chance she got to approach me
- The second i got on MSN messenger she would message me and if i didnt reply in 5 seconds she would be bugging me to reply.
- She was enthusiastic and friendly
After i asked her to the formal:
- She waits till i approach her to talk, this is weird she was walking right behind me and i hadnt seen her and she didnt say anything.
- Have to message her on msn messenger if i want to talk to her on there
- She doesnt seem as enthusiastic and friendly as before.

Kinda weird... any of u guys experienced something like this?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Who cares man? Why are you worrying about if she messages you online first or if she approaches you at school? You overanalyze things way too much man. Don't worry about it. Most high school girls can be quite immature, and some are very shy. Maybe she's nervous around you now cause she likes you and your showing her some signs of interest. Maybe not. Whatever it is, don't worry about it. You asked her to the formal, she said yes. Go with her to the formal and have a good time now. It's as simple as that man. Don't worry about all the insignificant bullsh*t.
 
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Yeah thanks man, I guess i was over analysing. It just seem stranged thats all. :)
 
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It's possible that she doesn't see you as much of a challenge anymore. By asking her you pretty much out and out said that you are interested in her. I would make your move quickly, while she's still pretty interested.
 
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Yeah, but i believe i am over analyzing the whole situation as engimatic said, i will probably just go to the formal and have a good time, i might make a move but im not sure if im interested.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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