"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cervantesscthree

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A girls who's a course mate of mine (who I have no intention of sleeping with) has so far texted me, and commented on pics of us saying that she loves me 3 times, so I wanted to know if . . . you know what, fu** the petty sh*t. This is what I really want to say. I ALWAYS blame any messed up or stupid thing men do because of women on a beta mind state. So, I was at an event earlier today, which looked on the reasons why people immigrate. These were various of course, but this led to the mentioning of the fact that almost 50% of men in Papa New Guinea have admitted to raping, or gang raping a woman. I know it might be miles away from ppl, but distance isn't relevant here, the fact that they are men, is. I'm all for equality, I don't want decent fathers unable to see their kids, I don't want soldiers coming back to homelessness and broken families, I don't want men killing themselves or ruining their lives in the pursuit of vagina, on any part of the planet :box:, but, I also don't want women getting raped.

I'm not a feminist but my point is that the thought of rape has never crossed my mind, but I've grown up with access to game so the concept may seem inconceivable to me. But many ppl on this forum have been an AFC, therefore at one time, were in in a state of desperation when it comes to the touch of a woman. I wanted to know, if anyone agrees that the thought of rape comes with the beta mind state, and that ONLY. It seems like an OBVIOUS yes, but, if that many men are doing it in one country, then I have to question myself, can it simply be because of a beta mind frame, or is it something else?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I feel it roots deeper than that. When i was a beta i would never touch a girl let alone think about rape. Now if the individual had a terrible upbringing along with social and cultura influence, of course. But that would be society to blame and that would mean that area or even country is going to sh*t.

However i agree most "messed up" things done by guys is from a beta or weak mindset. Rape is not in this category, but cheating is.
 

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Frayzer said:
I feel it roots deeper than that. When i was a beta i would never touch a girl let alone think about rape. Now if the individual had a terrible upbringing along with social and cultura influence, of course. But that would be society to blame and that would mean that area or even country is going to sh*t.

However i agree most "messed up" things done by guys is from a beta or weak mindset. Rape is not in this category, but cheating is.
Yeah that was confusing me as I thought a lot of the beta mind frame involved being afraid of women. I agree upbringing, cultural and social influence must play a part, (and Papa New Guinea's never had a great history of human rights) but rape is in every culture and society and definitely not all societies influence that behaviour, so there has to be something else. Maybe in countries like over here in the UK, it might be due to an individuals decision, or the situation they're in at the time may just create the environment, moment or opportunity for it.

Most definitely.
 
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